- Joined
- Sep 7, 2017
- Messages
- 5
Early morning swipng brought me a match who looked quite like a catholic nun. Mhmmm?! She was immediately responsive to my opener and said all this silly ditzy stuff which made it easy for me to flirt with her and set up a park date for the next day. We meet up and she's immediately telling me her quirks and insecurities, which I empathise with. We sit in the shade and maintain light conversation. She's a pale redhead who's dyed her hair black and has a faint sophistication which offsets her lack of glamour. After 15 or so minutes I get that uneasy feeling that while I'm doing ok for value and comfort, I haven't done anything sexual or flirty. In desperation, I begin talking about gym stuff and get up to demonstrate some moves, hoping she'll want to play but she doesn't show any interest at all. A few minutes later she says she'd better be going and we begin walking back. I'm thinking it's all gone to shit and start chatting about Tinder. The mood is fairly neutral but something impels me to say "Well we should probably meet up to go for a run together in a nice spot". She agrees and perks up a bit, I put my arm around her and she reciprocates. As we reach her car I offer her a goodbye peck on the lips, which turns into a full-blown makeout sesh in the supermarket carpark. She immediately melts into my body and next thing I hear is a mans voice "Sorry, hahaha" a young family returning to their car interrupted us. I let her deal with them as I'm pitching a tent under my loose shorts.
I send a followup text after 2 hours to meet over the weekend, implying sex by saying I want to trial some exotic massage techniques with her and using the devil and angel emojis. She quickly relpies that she'll be home in an hour and I can come over tonight. I risk offending the gods by aborting my session of heavy deadlifts in favour of some seated arnold presses to give me a nice front delt pump, then drive over to her place with a slab of chocolate.
At her place we don't immediately start making out, but just chat platonically and I get a bit triggered by some of her SJW views until eventually I interrupt her to unwrap that ginger muffin. I carry her to the bedroom, where she shoes away the cat (some women wouldn't bother to do this) and we fuck. Nothing flash but it feels so good to get back on the horse after a long dry spell. I like her as she seems kinda normal - not too crazy and not too masculine. She's not grilling me with questions or demands. I spend far too long listening to her life story before we fuck again, then I go home. Couple of days later she replies to my offer with "I'd love to. I'm available on request
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Notes:
If a date is going stale, MOVE HER
Say "well I think we get on well enough ... we should catch up again..."
Put my arm around her
Offer a kiss
Even if I think she's not into me she may just be waiting for me to make a decisive move. Don't let her go without making a decisive move.
I send a followup text after 2 hours to meet over the weekend, implying sex by saying I want to trial some exotic massage techniques with her and using the devil and angel emojis. She quickly relpies that she'll be home in an hour and I can come over tonight. I risk offending the gods by aborting my session of heavy deadlifts in favour of some seated arnold presses to give me a nice front delt pump, then drive over to her place with a slab of chocolate.
At her place we don't immediately start making out, but just chat platonically and I get a bit triggered by some of her SJW views until eventually I interrupt her to unwrap that ginger muffin. I carry her to the bedroom, where she shoes away the cat (some women wouldn't bother to do this) and we fuck. Nothing flash but it feels so good to get back on the horse after a long dry spell. I like her as she seems kinda normal - not too crazy and not too masculine. She's not grilling me with questions or demands. I spend far too long listening to her life story before we fuck again, then I go home. Couple of days later she replies to my offer with "I'd love to. I'm available on request
Notes:
If a date is going stale, MOVE HER
Say "well I think we get on well enough ... we should catch up again..."
Put my arm around her
Offer a kiss
Even if I think she's not into me she may just be waiting for me to make a decisive move. Don't let her go without making a decisive move.