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I'm kinda suprised that some guys really went out of there way to insult you like that and a girl even laughed at you. People are usually more respectful in colleges unless you're going to a community college? But if you are getting all this negative feedback then that can be a sign that you need to change and improve yourself. Style your hair in an attractive presentable way,grow your beard to look neat if you can get one,get a barber to trim your eyebrows if they look weird,dress in more respectable looking clothes. Go to the gym workout,get a part time job preferably in a environment with other young people like a summer camp, retail,or fast food so you can practice socializing with other people which will help you build your confidence and earn money which also makes you feel good. Get a personal mirror and practice different impressions and expressions that you can do so that you don't give off the vibe off a bitter,depressed incel. Basically just improve your fundamentals across the board. It's definetly doable and not that hard to be respected by people once you start building your way up. I used to think I was a ugly dude because I was never told by any girls I was cute until I finished my first yr of college and met some girls at a summer camp which was a big suprise for me to hear. That could be the case for you. You just gotta be willing to change and must have the ambition to be a guy who can get girls and doesn't want to stay being the loser that people around him percieve him to be. You can be a baller someday. It's ok to start from the bottom. As long as you take small steps to get better in life. I believe in you bro.
I agree with this wholeheartedly. I think it really comes down to fundamentals over looks, though looking the best you can is probably important
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