LR girl cockblocks. girl cries. I got laid....

[maximus6004]

Wednesday night and im at the bar try the hit and run technique. No particular success that I know of because the bartenders used kept getting me shots. Fml!

Wow I really got fucked up last night. I got a 39 year old asian phone number she looked good and I have been trying to get an asian for awhile so my buddy pushes me back in whatever ok. She said I dont date guys in their twenties. Well, you are attracted to me.obviously so its whatever.

Her"well how old are you"
Me"old enough, it really doesnt matter"

Thats when a girl I used to sleep with comes up.

Her"you are unbelievable!"

Ignored her. The woman asked if it was my girlfriend. No its not.

Her"prove it"
Me"ok if I prove it, you grab coffee with me"
Her"deal"

Saw the other girl walk by again,

Me"are we dating?"
Her"no"
Me"ok put your number in my.phone" to the other girl
Girl I want" how old is he"
Girl"ill look on facebook"
Me"h walk away"
Her" he is 26"
Cougar" heu I gotta go tonthe bathroom"
Me"of course you do, h really? What are you doing seriously?"
Her"I did think anything would happen."
Me"bullshit h, this isnt the first time you have done this, seriously do you want to go back to my place?"
H"no, why cant we just be friends"
Me"are you goibg to go camping come hang out, tell me.how you are going to benefit my life? You are cute and I see you as a fuck buddy"

This goes on until my buddy comes over and I tell hin how she cock blocked me. Dudes a beast and a psych major im drunk and off wandering around.

Text message from a girl who helped me move.

Her"hey are you here I thought I saw you"
Me"yeah center bar"
Her"come to me"
Me"no ypu come to me"
Her"no you come to me"

I dont respond im starting up simple conversation with a ron of hot girls and there are so many that I missed! Text message

Girl"im.here where are you?"
Me"right bar"
Her"pk im there"
Me"yea come back to center"

She comes over finally finds me.

Her" hey how are you?"
Im drunk so of course"you look good you sould come.over later"
Her"I have a boyfriend"
Me" so what? You can have him, I just want you im not relationship material"
Her"yea your sister told me you are a player"
Me"aww well she did the hard part for me then, yea I am..... I like woman I like sleeping with woman its what I do I keep discreet but hey"
Me" give me a kiss on the cheek." She does" other side is lonely" she kisses that side, and then I grab her and start making out with her.
Her"I have to go find ny friends"
Me"do it, ill see you later"
Her"you will be my fuck buddy"
Me"lol im down"

It was pretty sloppy as I hae had six shots of patron and three mixed drinks by now. I did bang this girl but we were both pretty wasted, so we kind of passed out half way through everything. But hey! She wants to see me again this weekend. Not. Sure if I wanna yet or not. I was a straight up hot mess last night

 

[BarryS1]

I love how brutally honest you were to everyone. The whole thing looked effortless. I am not sure how my game would be if I was drunk, never tried it before. Do you simplify everything when drunk or are things uncontrollable?

Me"of course you do, h really? What are you doing seriously?"
Her"I did think anything would happen."
Me"bullshit h, this isnt the first time you have done this, seriously do you want to go back to my place?"
H"no, why cant we just be friends"
Me"are you goibg to go camping come hang out, tell me.how you are going to benefit my life? You are cute and I see you as a fuck buddy"

Putting the old girl in her place! Nice!

Her" hey how are you?"
Im drunk so of course"you look good you sould come.over later"
Her"I have a boyfriend"
Me" so what? You can have him, I just want you im not relationship material"
Her"yea your sister told me you are a player"
Me"aww well she did the hard part for me then, yea I am..... I like woman I like sleeping with woman its what I do I keep discreet but hey"
Me" give me a kiss on the cheek." She does" other side is lonely" she kisses that side, and then I grab her and start making out with her.
Her"I have to go find ny friends"
Me"do it, ill see you later"
Her"you will be my fuck buddy"
Me"lol im down"

Boom! Done!

This makes me want to try the bar scene. Everyone's white girl wasted and having fun!

 

[maximus6004]

I adopted this behaviour naturally. So I say the same things when im drunk as I di in public and girls eat it up. They know when you are lying. Etc. Lol the poor girl cried but she lost me an asian woman god I was mad lol.

Other than that, I try not to get drunk as lol the sex was pretty damn terrible I tried going down on her I was so drunk it was just bad. So we passed out oh well.

 

[BarryS1]

I notice a lot of your LR's are about nightgame with lots of drinking. Are you rolling with a social scene or just pop into a bar with a couple friends?

 

[maximus6004]

Haha yea either im picking girls up at work in the day time, or im out at the club.

There are a few scenarios. When I first moved here, I was out by myself. Now tho I have met and made a few friends around the city who I always run into. We all work the same. We will talk and have a conversation but if we see something we like we break from the group and approach by ourselves. No wing men. I have even met up with a guy here in the city who does the same thing. We approach bump into each other discuss what happened get some afvice talk about it and then break off on our own again. If that answers your question.

 

[maximus6004]

Sometimes tho, ill pop out on my own. Not recommended tho, as, shit gets dicey. If you go out alone make sure you bounce earlier than close to miss the fights. I have been to a few states and gun shots, fights, and stabbings arent all that uncommon when you do that. Unless you have a local bar. We happen to have a big on here that is completely safe to go to ill go there by myself.

 

[BarryS1]

Haha yea either im picking girls up at work in the day time, or im out at the club.

There are a few scenarios. When I first moved here, I was out by myself. Now tho I have met and made a few friends around the city who I always run into. We all work the same. We will talk and have a conversation but if we see something we like we break from the group and approach by ourselves. No wing men. I have even met up with a guy here in the city who does the same thing. We approach bump into each other discuss what happened get some afvice talk about it and then break off on our own again. If that answers your question.

I used to go out by myself, but my mood gets the best of me if I'm not constantly talking to people. I join online groups and go out with them just to talk to someone when not approaching a girl. Nice, I've been doing the same when out with friends. I will leave the group and approach a few feet away by myself.

Sometimes tho, ill pop out on my own. Not recommended tho, as, shit gets dicey. If you go out alone make sure you bounce earlier than close to miss the fights. I have been to a few states and gun shots, fights, and stabbings arent all that uncommon when you do that. Unless you have a local bar. We happen to have a big on here that is completely safe to go to ill go there by myself.

I have the tendency to leave the club or bar earlier as well around 12-1230am.

 

[maximus6004]

Well, what do you feel is stopping your progress?

 

[BarryS1]

Well, what do you feel is stopping your progress?

A big setback is being in a positive mood before approaching. Lately my mood is concrete before I go out approach, I just reached a state of outcome independence. It doesn't matter if the interaction goes good or bad I stay the same.

I'm seriously gonna try the bar scene, it seems a like fun environment. Reading from your LR's, it seems like you are always caught in these exciting moments. I'm thinking to myself, "Nice, this guy is really raging face! Looks like fun!"

 

[maximus6004]

It doesnt bother me anymore its after hundreds of approaches which you seem to be picking up on. These situations are happening at a local bar, which I frequent a lot and used to work at. Downtown not so much. So I am.using a lot of social momentum in my advantage. Places im not so familiar with I dont rage out like that. However im starting to run into more and.more people that I know as I introduce and talk to people I know. So it can be fun once you get used to the whole scene! Also, can get a lot of bad reactions.

One time I approached a girl and she was having a nad night and clearly wasted she said img are you trying to sleep with me and called her bartender friend over. I just left the bar and went to another. Some other bars you go to, that you arent well known. Yes, you can get.lucky but the absolutely dime girls are looking and hanging with the guys from the higher status club you get a lot of resistance from them. So I qould say find a bar become a local, then every once in awhile branch out to the unknown spots and try it out. Its harder but worth it.

Draw backs happen from both as, the places you are known at you have to be careful who you sleep with as its like a high school. But I live in a city and go to a bar with enough locals that have a constant showing of new faces coming in. It works out but my buddy will come.over and slap.me in the back of the head and tell me to stay away from certain woman as they have bad reputations. Fir example the stripper who gave me something is known there as the bicycle. She gave me a bad reputation with some of the local pretty girls.

You will see if you have any more questions let.me know.

 

[Dern]

Lol, love how brutally honest you are. I like saying shit like that too. Just so fucking straightforward.

I'm new to the bar scene, so I was wondering how you approach groups and isolate the girl you want to fuck. I posted the question here:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=8170

And barry, I know how you feel. It's hard to go out when your feeling down and it's hard to control your emotions as well. We humans can be so dependent on what happens to make us what we feel. Therefore, I've realized that if I'm depressed, the only way to cheer up is by going out and meeting women.

 

[maximus6004]

Yea, I wasnt having the greatest approach night last night. As I had two buddies in their cleaning house so I sat bavk and analyzed.

Lets start with the importance of good clothes. My buddy was dressed simple but looked good. Very talkative, girls were stopping him to look at his shirts, it said I love biters. A few woman werent receptive towards him, then it completely changed I sat there in shock.

He would look around make eye contact and would wave and smile. One girl he caught attention with, slowly started dancing towards him and we were all laughing as she did that. He made it clear he knew what she was doing. Then he tapped her on the shoulder and started talking to her. Well she backed away, gee looks back and days real loud. She wants nee to chase get and ain't no body got time for that. So the girls friend starts talking to him. The original girl got jealous and was closed off to every other guy and pushed her way back in. By the end of the night it looked like a rap video as girls were dancing around him all night.

So to answer your question, when there are a bunch of alpha males its pretty hard to get anyones attention, but you can stand there with open body language cool clothes and a smile and wink or wave at girl who look at you. Or as I watched him approach groups its harder as a couple girls were receptive towards him while otgers were not. So what I like to do is walk up to the group qith a smile and good energy and be like eh, I had to.come say hi to you im such and such then walk away. I have been doing something like this but tweaked it from the recent article. They will find you if they are interested. Trust me.

 

[maximus6004]

Hey guys, i found this text that reminded me of something similar.

"Being a hero does not necessarily mean such an extreme as getting killed in battle or taking one's life--the latter is only recommended in a narrow set of circumstances and considered cowardly otherwise. having control over randomness can be expressed in the manner in which one acts in the small and the large. Recall that epic hero's were judged by their actions, not by the results. no matter how sophisticated our choices, how good we are at dominating the odds, randomness will have the last word. we are left only with dignity as a solution--dignity defined as the execution of a protocol of behavior that does not depend on the intermediate circumstance. it may not be the optimal one, but it certainty is the one that makes us feel best. Deciding not to toady up to someone whatever the reward. Or in fighting a duel to save face. or in signaling to a prospective mate during courtship:"Listen, I have a crush on you; i am obsessed with you, but i will not do a thing to compromise my dignity. Accordingly, the slightest snub and you will never see me again."

If you have read Casanovas memoirs, read girlschase for awhile, or even watched naturals. They all have a bad nights. For example the guy i have been watching he had girl drama that he dealt with and got shutdown by a few good looking woman in one night, he wasn't upset mostly because he has abundance mentality. The important part is he tells me all the time, i will figure it out, millions of girls live in this world. He got laid off from corporate jobs twice with no sign of relief. it does not effect him. He lives by the law of least effort. He doesn't come out straight and say i have a crush on you, he shows his interest with the way he acts. If he disapproves of something he walks away he will give advice if you dont want to hear it he drops it and continues on with his life.

So, yes its hard for me to tell you not to get upset, it all comes with experience of failing and picking yourself back up. Just remember this post, one shitty night is ok you tried your best reflect on what you did sometimes it was your fault sometimes randomness just won the battle that night. dust yourself off pick yourself up and go out a couple nights down the road. I personally had two girls flake on me 2 fall off the face of the earth last night. old me would have fallen into sadness and depression but i got an early nights rest did some writing, practiced math skills, lumosity watched some football and meditated. It's all in how you perceive things.

 

[Rage]

Hey guys, i found this text that reminded me of something similar.

"Being a hero does not necessarily mean such an extreme as getting killed in battle or taking one's life--the latter is only recommended in a narrow set of circumstances and considered cowardly otherwise. having control over randomness can be expressed in the manner in which one acts in the small and the large. Recall that epic hero's were judged by their actions, not by the results. no matter how sophisticated our choices, how good we are at dominating the odds, randomness will have the last word. we are left only with dignity as a solution--dignity defined as the execution of a protocol of behavior that does not depend on the intermediate circumstance. it may not be the optimal one, but it certainty is the one that makes us feel best. Deciding not to toady up to someone whatever the reward. Or in fighting a duel to save face. or in signaling to a prospective mate during courtship:"Listen, I have a crush on you; i am obsessed with you, but i will not do a thing to compromise my dignity. Accordingly, the slightest snub and you will never see me again."

If you have read Casanovas memoirs, read girlschase for awhile, or even watched naturals. They all have a bad nights. For example the guy i have been watching he had girl drama that he dealt with and got shutdown by a few good looking woman in one night, he wasn't upset mostly because he has abundance mentality. The important part is he tells me all the time, i will figure it out, millions of girls live in this world. He got laid off from corporate jobs twice with no sign of relief. it does not effect him. He lives by the law of least effort. He doesn't come out straight and say i have a crush on you, he shows his interest with the way he acts. If he disapproves of something he walks away he will give advice if you dont want to hear it he drops it and continues on with his life.

So, yes its hard for me to tell you not to get upset, it all comes with experience of failing and picking yourself back up. Just remember this post, one shitty night is ok you tried your best reflect on what you did sometimes it was your fault sometimes randomness just won the battle that night. dust yourself off pick yourself up and go out a couple nights down the road. I personally had two girls flake on me 2 fall off the face of the earth last night. old me would have fallen into sadness and depression but i got an early nights rest did some writing, practiced math skills, lumosity watched some football and meditated. It's all in how you perceive things.

Hey maximus love that bit from casanova... and great points all around ... I've gotta read those memoirs; he was around so long ago so before our times, but perhaps in character was quite similar to us other women lovers lol.

On an unrelated note; how do you like lumosity? I haven't tried it though almost had (might do so if the price is reasonable enough for me)...

-Gem

 

[maximus6004]

I was just relating how casanova was as a person to that paragraph. Which was from a book call fooled by randomness by nassim nicolas taleb.

Lumosity is great I cant afford the whole site so I just use the free version for now. Any way to improve yourself is great. In my opinion, I also have math drills on my phone to help keep my math skills up. I still feel behind.in thebworld tho. Lol