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Girl confusing me help!!!??

Topgun1991

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So I met this girl in my class we texted a lot almost daily she always responded quick gave long responses asked me questions and kept the convo going a lot for
2 months I asked her out one time but she was busy but said she def wants to get together then I asked
To meet up with her for lunch she said yes then canceled last minute bc her boss needed her to stay. Then I asked
Last week but she said it was a hectic week for her bc she is going home
For Easter. I decided to ask one last time and she said
She was talking to someone else and things got serious so it wouldn't
Be a good idea to go out to eat with me. How does this happen I don't get this 180 she pulled on me
Help because I really liked now I don't know if I just give up or keep trying in the future idk if she's
Telling the truth or what
 
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kept the convo going a lot for
2 months I asked her out one time but she was busy

Moved too slow. Missed escalation windows. "Busy" is girl code for lack of interest in going out with you.

She was talking to someone else and things got serious

Some dude made a move and probably fucked her already. She's not telling the truth, she was probably fucking this dude when she flaked on you. Been here before, sorry to say it's time to next her and move on. I hope you are not too emotionally invested in her, one itis and depression are both terrible diseases.
 
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