So about 2 months ago there was a big local event and I met a cute girl from out of state that I hit it off with. She danced very sexually with me and I was gradually pushing things forward, when a guy I'm guessing was her date (he pulled her a few times during the night. seemed to think he had something with her, her body language didn't seem to agree), told her they had to leave and she headed out. She lives about 2 hrs from me, in an area I'm very familiar with, but haven't been to in about 2-3 years, but previously frequented the same places she told me she does now. Because this guy rushed her out of there, I didn't get the chance for contact info.
I'm going to one of the two places in the area that we both frequent later this week, hopefully I'll run into her. I could probably find her on facebook through mutual friends who frequent the place and invite her out, but am thinking that would come across as being a bit of a creeper and falls into my weird tendancy of wanting to contact girls through facebook. That said, I will probably only make it out there 1-4 more times before the end of the year if I tried to go more often so if I don't see her, I may just not see her again period.
I'm basically seeing two options
1) track her down and contact her (could use some tips on the best message to send to avoid creepy territory) because, if I don't, the chances of seeing her again are stacked against me. so losing out is better than not trying
2) Don't contact her, go once, maybe twice and if I still haven't seen her then contact her. Give myself a chance to run into her without risking the wrong vibe/frame, or the chance to meet someone else.
your thoughts
I'm going to one of the two places in the area that we both frequent later this week, hopefully I'll run into her. I could probably find her on facebook through mutual friends who frequent the place and invite her out, but am thinking that would come across as being a bit of a creeper and falls into my weird tendancy of wanting to contact girls through facebook. That said, I will probably only make it out there 1-4 more times before the end of the year if I tried to go more often so if I don't see her, I may just not see her again period.
I'm basically seeing two options
1) track her down and contact her (could use some tips on the best message to send to avoid creepy territory) because, if I don't, the chances of seeing her again are stacked against me. so losing out is better than not trying
2) Don't contact her, go once, maybe twice and if I still haven't seen her then contact her. Give myself a chance to run into her without risking the wrong vibe/frame, or the chance to meet someone else.
your thoughts
