Casual/FWB Girl gets confused, how to keep it simple?

[R.A.D.]

So i met this girl at a friends house. We kissed got her number, she came to my house once, we escalated a lot but she apologized, left and said that next time we were going to have sex. She came again, we had sex, she told me she wanted to explore her sexuality, asked questions, that she never had an orgasm. We had two sex nights but they were very long sex nights, many hours many times. She went from being painful at each entry to ask me to give her harder and harder. We had a great time together. So far we saw each other once a week or once every two weeks, the last time she texted me to come.

So a week passed since last time, i didnt really had the time to text her back so i noticed she changed her whatsapp photo to a more sexy one.

I text her and this is what came up


Me: You know i was just wondering who that hot girl i had in my contacts was
Me: And it was you!

Her: jaja, i was playing i was a model!
Her: How are you?

Me; You turned out very cute, im fine crazy with lots of things at work but luckily things i like. You?

Her: Thanks!
Her: Its great then!
Her: Im fine too!
Her: I want to tell you something...
Her: I dont know if its ok that we talk about this here, but well
Her: After the last time we saw each other i felt a bit bad
Her: Because i realize that i want to make myself like i dont care being sexually with someone without feelings in the middle
Her: And actually that kind of weighs on me
Her: I need to feel something for the other person
Her: And i dont feel that for you
Her: I feel like a bitch telling you this
Her: But its real
Her: And you were great with me
Her: Do you understand?

Me: Yes i understand, i could tell you something about it but its best if we meet and talk about it personally. Dont worry it doesnt bother me and i wont kill myself in front of you

Her: jaja
Her: Ok!
Her: When are you available?

Me: Wednesday ill be free

Her: Ok then
Her: Around 7 pm?

Me: Ok

Her: Great!

Me: See you wednesday

Her: Ok! kisses!


So i didnt want to engage in a complex conversation through texting.

Besides that text is full of contradictions, she enjoys her sexuality but she wants to go back to what she knows were she never enjoyed herself.

So from what I read I think.she might be getting social circle pressure, her girl.friends dissaproving having great sex outside a relationship... or something else?

What do you think? does anyone else see something more there? i want to keep things simple, I like this girl but i dont have any intention of investing too much energy into it because i dont want to make this into a serious relation.

So how much does one invest into a casual relation?

Any thoughts welcome.

 

[maximus6004]

Its looking.to.me.from my opinion that she wants to be in s relationship. She doesn't feel she can be in one with you though. She is having conflicting.feelings about just being a booty call, something she thought she wanted but cant and maybe she is association with you and those conflicting feelings are making her have bad feelings.towards you?

She.might end it, or she might flake. Im not really sure, maybe your fundamentals need some work? Maybe you are telling her things too much, and you arent creating.enough attraction? Maybe she just really was never that in to you, and there was nothing you can really do about it.

Try reading the newest article about sexual availability I.think.colt.wrote it. See if any of that rings a bell. When she comes over give.more details, and if she decides to leave and never see you again well sleep with her and move on. It deff shouldn't ever be a social circle problem, girls will go for what they want no matter what their friends and family say if you portray the right kind of feelings!