Girl giving mixed signal

[jeevanjadeja]

Hi Everyone. I’m 27 yrs boy, slim body and with good looks and less into grooming. I’m an established and popular artist in my field and have very good annual income. A sales management girl joined our office 8 months ago, was of equal age but very good looking, taller and richer and more healthy than me (not heavy, just the right weight to look more sexy).
I liked her from the beginning but never made it obvious to her. She was making comments and suggestions on me on everything I did in office. Like I needed a better posture while walking, sitting, needed to gain weight, needed to be better groomed, better clothes, better haircut. She even indirectly asked me out a no. of times jokingly. She even asked me to say vulgar and abusive words in front of her, to which I declined. Even though I liked her but I never knew that these could be signs of her interest in me. This went on for like 5 months. I was getting frustrated to make her like me so I subtly started avoiding her. After a friend suggested that she may have been interested in me I started trying to talk to her and then she started avoiding me. One day she asked me directly whether I like her and I said yes. Then she explained that this relationship will be complicated and I’m not mature enough to handle such stuff. She’s looking for more many, mature and is attracted to someone already. After two days I asked her out and she liked it clearly but said no.
Then two days later she challenged me on my sexual abilities in front of the whole office. She asked how I stayed slim even after being sexually active with my ex? In fact later she asked me the extreme details of intercourse I had with my ex and then gave me a lesson on sex in front of another coworker. I confronted her next day for her misbehavior but she apologized even before I could say a word and said she just wanted to check my sexual abilities. She again mentioned that she’s not attracted to me.
I stopped taking any interest in her but now she’s again trying to get my attention. I’m confused what this girl is thinking?

 

[AsianPersuasion]

Huh. That's an interesting case you got there! I normally view mixed signals as a sign of interest, but the only real way you can know for sure is to ask her on a date and see what happens. Remember that not asking can give you months of confusion, years of mind games, and sometimes decades of regrets, but asking gives you an answer within 5 seconds.

Check out the article on the main site about Workplace Escalation. That should really help you out man.

 

[jeevanjadeja]

Huh. That's an interesting case you got there! I normally view mixed signals as a sign of interest, but the only real way you can know for sure is to ask her on a date and see what happens. Remember that not asking can give you months of confusion, years of mind games, and sometimes decades of regrets, but asking gives you an answer within 5 seconds.

Check out the article on the main site about Workplace Escalation. That should really help you out man.

I asked her out once, she said no but was very happy that I asked. The next time she said I'll let you know. Unfortunately she had to attend an unexpected office meeting that day so the date never happened. Next day she came to me asking details about my sex life with my ex-wife.