girl hasn't texted me back after second date

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,

I went out with this girl twice. Second time, she seems very interested. She leans into me during the date, good physical contact, also alludes to us going out again. Seems to really enjoy herself. We go to my place and make out, and she is very into it. I pull back a bit here and there and she leans into me and wants to continue. Felt her up a little. Eventually I push a bit she says she should to go home and laughs. Does not appear upset in any way, and seems happy. I walk her to her vehicle and we kiss a few times, again she is very into it. I pull back again after a couple of kisses and she leaned into me for few more. The next day, last night at 8 pm I send her the following text:

"Hey Emily! I enjoyed hanging out with you yesterday! Even if you were looking over at other girls haha! How was your day today?"

Explanation, she was checking out a girl's pants and staring as the girl walked by, and I teased her about it. She has not texted me back. She is normally very fast at texting and always has her phone with her. Other info, I met the girl online. I'm thinking that text was not the best one to send, but was it that bad?

What do you guys think? Should I wait a few days, or ask what's up, or forget about her? I'm confused as to why this suddenly went downhill after things were going so well.

 

[Franco]

This topic has been moved from the "General" board to the "Beginners" board.

- Franco

 

[Vash]

Because you didn't sleep with her! How would you feel if you were a girl who's super attracted to this hot guy, he takes you over to his place, you start making out and you get super excited, and then....nothing....he just sends you back home. Don't worry about her excuses that she has to go or whatever. She can leave anytime she wants, and if she's sitting there enjoying herself, then just disregard it and keep escalating.

Bottom line, don't take a girl over to your place and not even attempt to try to have sex with her.

 

[Tyme2k]

It sounds like from the way you wrote your story that you already know where you messed up. If you Don't Vash made it clear.

Eventually I push a bit she says she should to go home and laughs. Does not appear upset in any way, and seems happy

Right here this was the only LMR she gave and in my opinion this isn't even LMR! Every girl wants you to take charge, I have even noticed girls that naturally lead STILL want you to take charge. Once you do they submit the same as any other would! I don't think you can get this girl back, move on and learn from this.