After a great date with a girl from my social circle I had to let her go. I dont have my own place yet, and she lives with a male friend of ours so we wanted to keep it low. I invited myself to visit her later this week when her friend would be on a trip, she agreed and was exited about it.
Some facts about this particular girl tho:
Now I suddently got the following message on FB:
"Hi Kristian, is it okay that we take a raincheck on our meeting? It was just too much when you showed me interest. I am having fun, but there is so much happening right now and I am very sensitiv. Can we just meet another time when things are cooler around me? I really like you and all, but I am not ready to get to know you. I am very direct and honest now. But I think its the best way of saying this. What do you think?"
I realized that I fucked up by kissing her and not closing the deal then and there. I guess my question here is, why did this happen? And has this happened to you? And the most important thing; what do I respond now that I got this rejection (feedback)?
I want to come out as a confident guy. With options, but I dont want to close this door completely (although I most probably will just move on and look for new girls).
I appreciate your help and support guys!
Some facts about this particular girl tho:
- She recently came out of a 5 year old relationship
- She got orbiters around her wanting to be with her
- She told me she has feelings for somebody, but did not want to get involved yet.
- I presented myself as a sexual man, as a lover and not as a boyfriend or friend
- We kissed a bit and touched when we deep dived
Now I suddently got the following message on FB:
"Hi Kristian, is it okay that we take a raincheck on our meeting? It was just too much when you showed me interest. I am having fun, but there is so much happening right now and I am very sensitiv. Can we just meet another time when things are cooler around me? I really like you and all, but I am not ready to get to know you. I am very direct and honest now. But I think its the best way of saying this. What do you think?"
I realized that I fucked up by kissing her and not closing the deal then and there. I guess my question here is, why did this happen? And has this happened to you? And the most important thing; what do I respond now that I got this rejection (feedback)?
I want to come out as a confident guy. With options, but I dont want to close this door completely (although I most probably will just move on and look for new girls).
I appreciate your help and support guys!
