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So today I went out.
In order to build momentum, talked to some guys on the street and a chick distributing some kinda flyers.
Then headed to a restaurant. After chit-chatting with the fat chick server for a while and giving her good eye contact just for the sake of it, turned to see a group of 3 girls sitting. A small table in the middle, two chairs in one side, two in the other.
I notice that one chick in white looks pretty cute. So, I am about to cross them and choose another spot, but then stop and walk back and say "Hi! I am here alone, so can I join you guys?"
My target just looks at me, doesn't respond. But her friend sitting beside her says "Sure."
So I join them, get to know them. I find out that the girl who invited me to join is giving her birthday party and blah blah.
The chick in white is the only cute one in the group, and is sitting on the opposite side to me diagonally. She maintains strong eye contact.
I felt that if we were alone, I cold certainly get her number. But since she was with 2 other friends, she didn't offer her number.
Everything about this approch was fucked up. I didn't concentrate on voice, talked a lot, my body language wasn't dominant and shit.
I feel like I am worse than I was when I started. Not doing approaches for a long time can fuck with the mind pretty well, it seems.
And besides, this was the first approch of this kind in my life. What I mean is, I never before actually sat down with 3 other girls in the middle of a restrutant and talked for 15 or 20 mintues, joking, teasing, talking etc.
Now that I look back, I think I should have isolated the girl first. My mistake was sitting with the group, because that forced me to engage all the three girls. Couldn't focus on the target girl alone without seeming impolite. Fuck, the other two chicks even left us for about 15 seconds, then maybe they thought we were not vibing well, and returned.
At last, I asked for another meet up, a half-assed attempt really (mind went blank, couldn't think of a way to smoothly ask for another meetup). The chick offered FB, I don't use FB. I didn't tell her that, just kept my silence after trying a few times.
If I took FB and I had FB, perhaps it would have led to something good as the girl in white was giving me strong signals. But okay, it's gone. Oh alright!
What I want to know is what is your process of isolating a girl from a group? I mean, beginner's process, a step-by-step guide or something maybe?
- Sneaky
In order to build momentum, talked to some guys on the street and a chick distributing some kinda flyers.
Then headed to a restaurant. After chit-chatting with the fat chick server for a while and giving her good eye contact just for the sake of it, turned to see a group of 3 girls sitting. A small table in the middle, two chairs in one side, two in the other.
I notice that one chick in white looks pretty cute. So, I am about to cross them and choose another spot, but then stop and walk back and say "Hi! I am here alone, so can I join you guys?"
My target just looks at me, doesn't respond. But her friend sitting beside her says "Sure."
So I join them, get to know them. I find out that the girl who invited me to join is giving her birthday party and blah blah.
The chick in white is the only cute one in the group, and is sitting on the opposite side to me diagonally. She maintains strong eye contact.
I felt that if we were alone, I cold certainly get her number. But since she was with 2 other friends, she didn't offer her number.
Everything about this approch was fucked up. I didn't concentrate on voice, talked a lot, my body language wasn't dominant and shit.
I feel like I am worse than I was when I started. Not doing approaches for a long time can fuck with the mind pretty well, it seems.
And besides, this was the first approch of this kind in my life. What I mean is, I never before actually sat down with 3 other girls in the middle of a restrutant and talked for 15 or 20 mintues, joking, teasing, talking etc.
Now that I look back, I think I should have isolated the girl first. My mistake was sitting with the group, because that forced me to engage all the three girls. Couldn't focus on the target girl alone without seeming impolite. Fuck, the other two chicks even left us for about 15 seconds, then maybe they thought we were not vibing well, and returned.
At last, I asked for another meet up, a half-assed attempt really (mind went blank, couldn't think of a way to smoothly ask for another meetup). The chick offered FB, I don't use FB. I didn't tell her that, just kept my silence after trying a few times.
If I took FB and I had FB, perhaps it would have led to something good as the girl in white was giving me strong signals. But okay, it's gone. Oh alright!
What I want to know is what is your process of isolating a girl from a group? I mean, beginner's process, a step-by-step guide or something maybe?
- Sneaky
