Been with this girl for some time, she was really into me, used to text back and forth for hours and everday. She used to reply to EVERY text I send her and she used to text me first sometimes... And then boom, sex happened. The first week after sex she was more into me but after that she started acting weired. She stopped replying to most of my texts, Am the one who's always texting her first, and she's always busy to meetup with me. I talked to her and complained to her about this, she says she just has some issue's goin on in her life. I dont understand what I did wrong when the sex all good, and followed up well after that.
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Cassy said:
This is why. So if I understood you correctly, you only had sex once? If this is correct, you must understand that a girl hasn't formed a connection with you yet at that point. It takes around two to three times of sex. You went chasing her before this, which is very bad. You even complained to her. Its not like she owes you anything. This is why you lost her. Don't be her texting buddy either.
It could be anything in my opinion. She very well may have issues in her life, she may have met someone else in the meantime, maybe the sex wasn't as good as you thought... The best advice anyone could give you without knowing more would be to let her go.
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Hey Cassy,
The other guys nailed it. It takes two or three lays to convert her. In the meantime, you chased her (texting first) and demonstrated insecurities (complaining), both of which didn't help. There was most likely something else going on in the first place, maybe another guy in the picture, or something that didn't click.
You chased enough already, and she got the point. Now it's time for a good bit of radio silence.
I have one big principle: if she likes you, she *will* come back. And its corollary: if she doesn't come back, she was a time waster.
Seppuku
PS. Nerves of steel at all times.
The other guys nailed it. It takes two or three lays to convert her. In the meantime, you chased her (texting first) and demonstrated insecurities (complaining), both of which didn't help. There was most likely something else going on in the first place, maybe another guy in the picture, or something that didn't click.
You chased enough already, and she got the point. Now it's time for a good bit of radio silence.
I have one big principle: if she likes you, she *will* come back. And its corollary: if she doesn't come back, she was a time waster.
Seppuku
PS. Nerves of steel at all times.
