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Girl not interested in starting a relationship I think I messed up

Net

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Ive been going out with a girl. due to my car breaking down on our way to a coffee shop had to reschedule. Got laid on the 2nd date and 3rd date.

After the 3rd date she dindnt reply to my text until the following day.

Her "I wouldnt mind going out again but to be honest im not in the position to be in a relationship right now and it seems like you may be interested in that"

Me "Im not interested in starting a relationship either just got out of a relationship 2 months ago. And just started seeing someone but its not serious. I just enjoy your company."

Her "Ah okay I see"

For some reason i added that i had just started seeing someone else. Which is true but not sure why I added that. Im planning on not texting her again for 3 or 6 weeks. Just to let it cool down

What are the odds she will answer my next text if she doesnt text me first. We really clicked should i just cut my losses and continue with the new girl and keep looking for more? And should I wait 3 or 6 weeks to text her again any recommendations
 

WayOfHand

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She just told you she wouldn't mind seeing you again. What is the problem here? Just proceed as normal. Ping her next week for food at your place or something along the lines.

All she needs is you keeping it casual and not pressuring her to commit. She might have gotten that vibe or just wants to make things clear. You are good to go!
 

skin_man

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What about my comment of seeing someone else

Hi, I'll say, Don't be hung up on it. FWB still exists. Dating more than one lady is also permitted. Just go with it as WayOfHand says.
 
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