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Girl not interested in starting a relationship I think I messed up

Net

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Ive been going out with a girl. due to my car breaking down on our way to a coffee shop had to reschedule. Got laid on the 2nd date and 3rd date.

After the 3rd date she dindnt reply to my text until the following day.

Her "I wouldnt mind going out again but to be honest im not in the position to be in a relationship right now and it seems like you may be interested in that"

Me "Im not interested in starting a relationship either just got out of a relationship 2 months ago. And just started seeing someone but its not serious. I just enjoy your company."

Her "Ah okay I see"

For some reason i added that i had just started seeing someone else. Which is true but not sure why I added that. Im planning on not texting her again for 3 or 6 weeks. Just to let it cool down

What are the odds she will answer my next text if she doesnt text me first. We really clicked should i just cut my losses and continue with the new girl and keep looking for more? And should I wait 3 or 6 weeks to text her again any recommendations
 
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trashKENNUT

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jms563343,

what are the actions on the 3rd date? what things you did that made it look to her that you sounds or looks 'boyfriend material'?

An example text will be helpful too. or something along the lines.

Zac
 

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ZacAdam said:
jms563343,

what are the actions on the 3rd date? what things you did that made it look to her that you sounds or looks 'boyfriend material'?

An example text will be helpful too. or something along the lines.

Zac

I believe it had to do with the 3rd date I might of acted more of a nice guy than the other time were i really didnt care. Not sure what it was.
 

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jms,

jms563343 said:
I believe it had to do with the 3rd date I might of acted more of a nice guy than the other time were i really didnt care. Not sure what it was.

Yes, niceness is 'boyfriend' -ness or ish. Next time, throw her under the bus for real, nah kidding. Kick her onto the train tracks. FATALITY. :p

Anyway, if you can tell me how your vibe and what you do, let me know.

Zac
 
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