I am at college,second year.I met this girl last year in october,while we were checking in our student hostel.SHe was talking about the hostel to 1 other girl.I didn't get into a conversation with her,but my mom did,so I started talking to her sometime later.
We talked mostly about college and the hostel,and my mother talked more to her than I did.I did shoot a couple of questions about her,but nothing substantial.We were mostly exchanging eye contact and she was visibly attracted to me,while I wasn't all that much at first.I started getting attracted to her kind of later,when she left while looking at me.I didn't find out her name ,nor did I get her cell number.ALl I remember is her room number(kudos to mom
).
Now it was all nice and dandy till yesterday.Yesterday I think I saw her,because I kind of forgot how she looked,I was walking(leaving) and I looked straight into her eyes for 3-4 seconds,and she did the same.Even when I left I was only 90% sure it was her,and by the time I left,it was too late.
Now what I want to do is see her and try something with her.At college we see eachother very rarely(she is 1 year older than me),so we don't have any classes together,and I've only seen her once so far.So when I do see her at college,just by chance,what shall I do?I would tell her hi,come with me a sec and let's talk,find out her name,and get her cell number.But she will only have like 5 minutes time,so asking for her cell number without pretending to be interested sexually in her is kinda creepy for me(why would you ask for it like 5 months later and suddenly be interested in her when you weren't able to ask for her name/cell number the first time you saw her?)
There is a second option,that is going to her room and asking her whether she has any books for me,and no matter what she says,I would tell her to come outside for a couple minutes and talk,and flirt with her a little and ask for her cell number if things are going well.and maybe set up a date with her.
The thing I am worried about is that whichever options I pick,it will seem abit off to me.I mean,I haven't talked to her since october,didn't have the balls to have a good conversation with her and ask for her name,and now when I see her by chance or by my will,I will suddenly act interested in her.I want to be smooth.
SO please give me some pointers about what to say and do,because I really want this chick.
We talked mostly about college and the hostel,and my mother talked more to her than I did.I did shoot a couple of questions about her,but nothing substantial.We were mostly exchanging eye contact and she was visibly attracted to me,while I wasn't all that much at first.I started getting attracted to her kind of later,when she left while looking at me.I didn't find out her name ,nor did I get her cell number.ALl I remember is her room number(kudos to mom
).Now it was all nice and dandy till yesterday.Yesterday I think I saw her,because I kind of forgot how she looked,I was walking(leaving) and I looked straight into her eyes for 3-4 seconds,and she did the same.Even when I left I was only 90% sure it was her,and by the time I left,it was too late.
Now what I want to do is see her and try something with her.At college we see eachother very rarely(she is 1 year older than me),so we don't have any classes together,and I've only seen her once so far.So when I do see her at college,just by chance,what shall I do?I would tell her hi,come with me a sec and let's talk,find out her name,and get her cell number.But she will only have like 5 minutes time,so asking for her cell number without pretending to be interested sexually in her is kinda creepy for me(why would you ask for it like 5 months later and suddenly be interested in her when you weren't able to ask for her name/cell number the first time you saw her?)
There is a second option,that is going to her room and asking her whether she has any books for me,and no matter what she says,I would tell her to come outside for a couple minutes and talk,and flirt with her a little and ask for her cell number if things are going well.and maybe set up a date with her.
The thing I am worried about is that whichever options I pick,it will seem abit off to me.I mean,I haven't talked to her since october,didn't have the balls to have a good conversation with her and ask for her name,and now when I see her by chance or by my will,I will suddenly act interested in her.I want to be smooth.
SO please give me some pointers about what to say and do,because I really want this chick.
