Girl Rejecting Date Progression

[LovelyDesires]

-Text girl for date
-Bring a girl out on a first lunch date
-Finished lunch

Me: Lets go somewhere with water.
She: Where are we going
Me: Somewhere relaxing
She: Where

(Keeps pestering me persistently)

Me: The beach
She: I dont feel like going there, its really hot

(Now what... Luckily I know of a bowling alley upstairs, but it still wasnt gonna be seduction conducive)

Me: Lets go bowling then, its just upstairs.
She: I dont really like going bowling.

(I still brought her there anyway, because I knew I had to lead. But it was full, they were having some competition and stuff.)

Ended up at the shopping mall doing nothing much, with her being more interested in looking at clothes than anything.
(Realistically, I do not have a home that I can pull her to so the park and the beach are best options. Would seriously consider starting a date at the park or beach next)

1) My question is, is it good to keep her guessing about where we were going next or is it better to tell her directly, since its not like we were going back to my place?
2) What should I do after she rejects to go to the beach, both during a date and when texting her for a date?

Any suggestions would be appreciated!

 

[Bboy100]

My question is, is it good to keep her guessing about where we were going next or is it better to tell her directly, since its not like we were going back to my place?

Its fine to tell her where you're going next unless you're pulling her to your place or a hotel or something. The whole point of NOT telling her is that if you say "lets go back to my place" or something of the sort her auto-pilot will kick in and her defenses will go up.

Whereas, if you ask her to go to the beach or the park or w.e, that seems perfectly natural. She's not expecting sex there, and more importantly, very few other guys have asked her to go there, so she hasn't developed a habit/auto-pilot response of rejecting men when they say this.

What should I do after she rejects to go to the beach, both during a date and when texting her for a date?

Persist! I could explain it here, but Chase probably does a better job.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/persi ... insistence
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... objections
https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-if-she-says-no

If none of this works, you either messed up earlier and she's lost all attraction for you, or she was never interested to begin with. In any case, the best course of action would probably be to NEXT her.

 

[Lotus]

Sounds like she sucks and/or was not interested. Most girls, you will find, are pretty open for whatever you suggest if they are interested.

Also,

Lunch date + shopping = not good for seduction