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Wow, had an incredible experience last night. Went on a date with a girl, and about an hour into the date I made a move. I put my hand on her lap, she let me rest it there, then I moved it onto her inner thigh. She pushed the hand away, then about a minute later I went for the kiss. She rejected it saying she doesnt kiss on first dates and that she wants to get to know me first. An hour later she's in my bed at my place and i'm fucking her. Never has this happened to me before, usually i'd go for the kiss, if they'd reject it, that was it for me, i couldnt get back on track. This time it was different, i responded to the situation pretty confidently with my vibe totally unaffected by her rejection to my advances, continuing the seduction and conversation like nothing had happened. i guess it's proof that when you get rejected at first it's how you react to the situation that is the most important.
Earlier on in the date she had asked me what i was doing later tonight. When she asked me that i did think it was a possible invitation for sex, but i didnt make an effort then to extract her to my place, probably because it was still very early,we had only started our drinks and it was 20 mins in and i still hadnt made a move (we were sitting opposite each other as there was no option of sitting side by side, so getting physical would have been difficult). I did remember though so when she asked me again what i was doing later (this was after she rejected the kiss and said she doesnt kiss on first dates) I said i'd be watching a film and asked if she wanted to join me. she asked "are you sure we're only watching a film?" in a very suspicious way to which i said "of course". She then asked "you sure we're only watching a film? nothing else?" to which i said "sure". She then said it was getting late and that she needed to be up early to which i said we could watch a short documentary instead as i remembered she liked documentaries. i said i also had tea, coffee, fruit juice, ice cream at my place (needed to give good exciting reasons for her to come over) then she agreed to come. and within 20 mins of watching documentary we had sex.
Last night was absolute proof you can get what you want even after initial rejection. Just keep persevering in a cool, suave, smooth way and you'll get it. Girls often don't want to appear as "sluts" (i hate that word) so will put up initial resistance, especially if they're quite conservative (this one i think was quite conservative). But the thing is, if they've agreed to come out with you it's because they are attracted to you so you've just got to make it happen and break through those defences and barriers they put up.
My eyes are slowly opening. After last night the more I realise how easy it can actually be if you do the right things to get what you actually want. Definitely my seductions have come a long way thanks to this website. I would never have been able to do this even just a few months ago let alone a year ago. And the more I've been doing pickup and doing the stuff they preach on this website the more i realise what bullshit mainstream dating advice is and the more i realise how this stuff really works. Been mostly sleeping with girls on 2nd dates but definitely going to try and do it on the first more from now on.
Earlier on in the date she had asked me what i was doing later tonight. When she asked me that i did think it was a possible invitation for sex, but i didnt make an effort then to extract her to my place, probably because it was still very early,we had only started our drinks and it was 20 mins in and i still hadnt made a move (we were sitting opposite each other as there was no option of sitting side by side, so getting physical would have been difficult). I did remember though so when she asked me again what i was doing later (this was after she rejected the kiss and said she doesnt kiss on first dates) I said i'd be watching a film and asked if she wanted to join me. she asked "are you sure we're only watching a film?" in a very suspicious way to which i said "of course". She then asked "you sure we're only watching a film? nothing else?" to which i said "sure". She then said it was getting late and that she needed to be up early to which i said we could watch a short documentary instead as i remembered she liked documentaries. i said i also had tea, coffee, fruit juice, ice cream at my place (needed to give good exciting reasons for her to come over) then she agreed to come. and within 20 mins of watching documentary we had sex.
Last night was absolute proof you can get what you want even after initial rejection. Just keep persevering in a cool, suave, smooth way and you'll get it. Girls often don't want to appear as "sluts" (i hate that word) so will put up initial resistance, especially if they're quite conservative (this one i think was quite conservative). But the thing is, if they've agreed to come out with you it's because they are attracted to you so you've just got to make it happen and break through those defences and barriers they put up.
My eyes are slowly opening. After last night the more I realise how easy it can actually be if you do the right things to get what you actually want. Definitely my seductions have come a long way thanks to this website. I would never have been able to do this even just a few months ago let alone a year ago. And the more I've been doing pickup and doing the stuff they preach on this website the more i realise what bullshit mainstream dating advice is and the more i realise how this stuff really works. Been mostly sleeping with girls on 2nd dates but definitely going to try and do it on the first more from now on.
