Calls & Texts Girl says """"BF"""", what does it mean?

[darklarik]

So im trying to get this girl out on a date, building some rapport, and she mentions "Oh i have to ask my BF" then says " well, """"""BF"""""" "
Like, literally that, with that many quotation marks under it.

Is she trying to say shes not actually in a relationship? Im confused. Help bros :v

 

[Franco]

darklarik,

Is she trying to say shes not actually in a relationship? Im confused. Help bros :v

It could mean several things, but she's trying to convey the fact that there's something "unconventional" about the relationship between her and the guy in question -- it could mean she's just "annoyed" with him, and maybe she is looking for a new guy. Or it could mean that she really does not have a boyfriend, and it's just some dude she's seeing. Or maybe there isn't even another guy at all, and she's just trying to ramp up your interest.

Either way, it doesn't matter because the way forward is the same: be cool about it and move things forward as if she never mentioned it. If she goes out with you and you take her to bed that night, then you have the only answer you need. =)

- Franco

 

[darklarik]

darklarik,

Is she trying to say shes not actually in a relationship? Im confused. Help bros :v

It could mean several things, but she's trying to convey the fact that there's something "unconventional" about the relationship between her and the guy in question -- it could mean she's just "annoyed" with him, and maybe she is looking for a new guy. Or it could mean that she really does not have a boyfriend, and it's just some dude she's seeing. Or maybe there isn't even another guy at all, and she's just trying to ramp up your interest.

Either way, it doesn't matter because the way forward is the same: be cool about it and move things forward as if she never mentioned it. If she goes out with you and you take her to bed that night, then you have the only answer you need. =)

- Franco

Thank you Franco. Can i bother yah for one more question, this girl in question, i realized that she has some serious Social Anxiety, shes shy as fuck introvert. How should i modify my approach? If at all? Got any tips sudjestions? Or just treat her the same as any girl?