Girl says she is seeing someone after our first date

[Theozil10]

I went on a date with a girl I had met on Tinder. She was from out of town and only been in the area for a couple months and didn't really know anyone besides a few people from college. Whenever I texted her before the date, she responded instantly. She even told me I was a bad texter, which I took to be a good sign.

So I asked her out on a date on Thursday. We went to a local bar and had a few drinks. I felt it went really well, because she was really into me. We had a lot in common and seemed to laugh a lot. I escalated well and got a lot of IOIs. Even steered the conversation into a sexual dialogue. I mentioned I was "bored with sex" and " that most girls are all the same." This was said in a very aloof manner and her interest increased after. I teased her on things and she playfully punched my arm on several occasions. Finally, at the end of the night she had to run to get her bus.

2 mins after she got the bus he sends me a text saying:

Thursday 11:10pm Girl: Nice to meet you...im sorry for being drunk except not really because it was your fault

Friday 12:15pm Me: Sure... Blame me for you not being able to handle your drink
Friday 12:16pm Girl:

So I decide to wait a few days and then text her for the second date..

Sunday 6:03pm Me: I'm free tomorrow. Let's hangout

Monday 11:30am Girl: Im seeing someone so i cant :/

WTF?! Where did this come from? I don't know if she is being serious or throwing a shit test at me?
Should I respond with "right" or "I don't care"...?

Any advice would be appreciated

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Well you said you met here on tinder so in the the days you gave her radio silence she probably just found another match and they went on a date and he closed her on the date. In addition you said it was a good date so you probably should of tried organize another straight away while you where on fire instead of the radio silence cause you probably just warmed her up for the next guy.



My tip for you would be to try have sex with your dates on the first date especially in this scenario where you been out for drink and have been talking sexual and making contact.

A comment like don't worry about catching the bus you can just stay at mine and watch movies or something like that might work

 

[Theozil10]

Thanks for the advice Yoda. I'll chalk this one up as a loss and try to seal the deal on the next one. Have to work on my logistics with brining girls back to my place... hard when I'm sharing with others and they wouldn't be too impressed if I brought a girl back late one night during the week when they have work the next day.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

hard when I'm sharing with others and they wouldn't be too impressed if I brought a girl back late one night during the week when they have work the next day.

I know the feeling working around room mates etc. can be a hassle

 

[Theozil10]

Decided to text her "right"... She responded a few hours later saying "sorry... Bad timing "

I didn't expect her to respond. I know she is out of town for a week on Wednesday. Should I text her back saying "it's a good thing we're friends" or something similar? Or am I better off leaving it at that?

Also, did you have any special tips for bringing girls back with roommates?