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Met a girl dancing a few weeks ago. Danced with her again yesterday, like intense close passionate dancing.
We chatted, we got along very well very quickly. I was being very confident (we were in a latin club, and I'm never more confident than when I'm there), and cocky in a charming way, and she loved it.
She was very touchy on my hands, arms, and complimented me fairly often.
Twice i said Ima go check out another dance room, and she followed without me asking.
Once i said lets go to this other room, she followed.
A couple times when we danced she caressed my head, my cheeks. which is fairly normal, but she also clawed my back while we danced. And in my experience, every girl who has done that I've either hooked up with or made out with at least.
So I tried to kiss her while dancing. She resisted, but smiled and didn't turn away. I tried again a couple minutes later, she let me get really close but again smiled, and didn't turn away.
So here's what I'm thinking...either I placed myself in the boyfriend category already (we talked about our school, im a masters student at an ivy league engineering school, on multiple dance teams, im generally awesome, etc) or she may have gotten the feeling that I was a player and that I do this with every girl (typical latino dancer stereotype), because most dancers know who I am, and I dance very passionately with most women. everyone sees that. And maybe she didn't wana be just another one of those girls. or maybe she didn't wana kiss in front of other people at the club. But still, later in the night we danced passionately, I just didn't try to kiss her again.
But she's so awesome, i'd be willing to date her. So, what route shoud i take?
Also I'm on a cruise for 9 days so I won't be talking to her til I get back
We chatted, we got along very well very quickly. I was being very confident (we were in a latin club, and I'm never more confident than when I'm there), and cocky in a charming way, and she loved it.
She was very touchy on my hands, arms, and complimented me fairly often.
Twice i said Ima go check out another dance room, and she followed without me asking.
Once i said lets go to this other room, she followed.
A couple times when we danced she caressed my head, my cheeks. which is fairly normal, but she also clawed my back while we danced. And in my experience, every girl who has done that I've either hooked up with or made out with at least.
So I tried to kiss her while dancing. She resisted, but smiled and didn't turn away. I tried again a couple minutes later, she let me get really close but again smiled, and didn't turn away.
So here's what I'm thinking...either I placed myself in the boyfriend category already (we talked about our school, im a masters student at an ivy league engineering school, on multiple dance teams, im generally awesome, etc) or she may have gotten the feeling that I was a player and that I do this with every girl (typical latino dancer stereotype), because most dancers know who I am, and I dance very passionately with most women. everyone sees that. And maybe she didn't wana be just another one of those girls. or maybe she didn't wana kiss in front of other people at the club. But still, later in the night we danced passionately, I just didn't try to kiss her again.
But she's so awesome, i'd be willing to date her. So, what route shoud i take?
Also I'm on a cruise for 9 days so I won't be talking to her til I get back
