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Finalstep

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Hi guys,

I cold approached this girl in a theatre after the performance finished.
She was rather warm. Got her number. End of conversation - she: "Let me hear from you."

NOW, we are setting up a date by means of text messages (following Chase's process)

Me on Sunday: "Girl, hi, let us find time to get coffee together. How's your schedule next week?"

She (2 hours later): "Hi, Finalstep, how's your Wednesday looking? I am doing some work until five, but
then I am free. There is a nice French Cafe in the city center called xx. What about there,
17.30p.m. approx?"

Me: "Wednesday evening - provisionaly yes. Let us specify the time and place later.. Sounds good.

How to interpret her answer?

Does that mean she is investing by proposing time and place?
Or does that mean she is stealing away my leadership.

Can I accept her proposal of time and place?
How should I answer not to screw it up?

She offers one day only. It's one of two days I can only make that week.
So it suits me. She suggest meeting in her city, not in my town (I don't think
I want to push for her to come to my place). Unless she invites me
to her place after the cafe I am staying overnight at that city in my parennt's appartment
as I need to travel from there on a short vacation early morning next day. T
The distance between my town and her city is ca 45min. That's for logistics.

Thanks!
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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If you know the place, then reply with something about how you LOVE that place, and you are glad she suggested it. If you don't know it but it's proximity works for a venue change to somewhere you are comfortable then it is fine...

One option is to chase frame it and tell her you will let her buy you a coffee. The premise is the age old tradition of the person who proposes the date and venue is going to pay.....

Once you meet her there don't be afraid to direct her to sit where you are next to her and able to offer some kino...leaning in to have her speak in your ear, showing her pictures of your cat on your phone...or whatever...no matter what don't position yourself across a table from her..at least on the corner with her...

Have a plan for post coffee. I do like getting coffees to go and walking side by side. You would be amazed at how soon a woman will take your arm and how it is a strong leading move...

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