Girl trying to get to now my brother actively.

[GodsGift]

Ok guys i have a problem with a girl as of right now. she tells me that she loves me and and she always trys to guilt trip me into saying i love her back. one of the things before that happend with this girl is that one day i told her that i loved her after making passionate love and told her i would like to make her my girlfriend. the thing is tho is the emotions soon faded i think it ws after the sex or soething that i thought i dont really love this girl i just really liked the sex we made. she got really made at this and with drew sex from me a long time. ok so now she has told me that she doesnt want to have sex with me anymore because i told her that i just wanted to be friends now. im thinking this relationship cannot be healthy. so now she and or me is having trust issues with me she has seen the way i have behaved before and i know how that saying goes if im willing to cheat in a relationship the other partner will usually be willing to cheat aswell. and as of right now she added my brother and my brothr telles me that she try's to messege him on face book, he's sort of a ladys man and has told me that women who add you as a friend of a friend usually try to mess around. my borther gets alot of tail through face book. I need help you guys! how should i fame to this girl about how you cant activly try to be friends with a mans friends beause thats not right. it might just be that my brothers a player and this girl has been going through a rough pach with me and both or them trying to hook up. im i just thinking to hard or what? need your guy's help and opinion. should i break it off or? feel free to ask more questions.

Thanks G.G.

 

[PinotNoir]

Classic. Loves you. You don't love her. So she's trying to make you jealous in one of the worst ways possible.

Are you close to your brother? If so, just ask him not to do anything with her. My brother and I don't share girls; it's an understood rule and would actually be kind of sick when I think about it.

This has gotten really fucked up, I think. I think you need to end it as friends. Treat it like a breakup; this girl is obviously head over heels for you. Be gentle. She's also really regretting sleeping with you because the relationship slowly raised to the climax ("I love you" and passionate sex) and then took a nosedive and crashed and burned. Imagine how that must feel or if you were in the same situation? It would suck.

You just need to end this as lovers and as friends, else it's going to get a lot uglier.