Girl wants to reschedule with friends? Help ASAP

[CaptainHenley]

Howdy,


So I have persisted with a girl for a week now, constantly trying to move things forward through text, yet she still resists.
(I'll post an FR soon)

I told her that this is her last chance that we can meet, and she said to me to hang out with her and her friends.

Her friends are kind of people I know, and there are some attractive women there.

Should I go out with them and isolate her? If so, can someone link me an article on how to do that.

Should I persist on getting us on 1 on 1, even though she has resisted every advance, but still keeps contact...?

 

[MichaelGScott]

I would not go out with her and her friends. Why do you think she invited you out with her friends, and not alone? She's controlling the variables and making you date on her terms. Tell her that sounds nice, but you'll have to pass, and cease contact. I'd drop her unless she initiates contact and makes it obvious she wants to hang out 1-on-1. You've already told her this is the last chance, she gave you an alternative, so don't persist anymore. It'll make you look weak.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Unless you're really advanced (and even then probably still) just avoid group dates. In my experience, you can still get a few of these girls later on down the road, but only if you avoid friend dates.

If she had suggested a double date then you could have worked with that. But this girl has basically told you that she's not interested (at least not yet, because time does funky things to people and their perceptions).


Just politely tell her that you're not into friend dates, but you can do something after she is done hanging out with her friends. Then just drop the subject and next her unless she says she wants to do something, or texts you out of the blue one day. But ya, never do friend dates and double dates are always a flip of the coin in my experience.