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I'm sure you all know what's your first love like, or your first crush.
The times where you wrote love letters and get torn by the girl, getting rejected in public or how you try to make the first move, and even shiver. I want to note that being in love with a one girl is really an empowering thing.
One girl can inspire you in so many ways. and my first girl was that. My dream girl whom i put in a desire list years ago, a mix Asian girl who rejected so many guys and go out with me. and she empowered me in many ways. But here's the thing,
As much as she is empowering you, you need to empower yourself.
You really need to, because every girl will be "different" once you're in love. Don't fight against it but rather have a clear conscience to separate yourself.
Because your life is not revolve around her and her life does not revolve around you. You might take the advice here and find a great girl, and then lose yourself altogether. I know, when you in love, it is empowering and it can also be dangerous if you do not acknowledge that you are indeed in love and suck into this emotional whirlwind.
You need to know, that in any subjects in life, there's two sides. and you have to recognize both as you walk the line.
Zac
The times where you wrote love letters and get torn by the girl, getting rejected in public or how you try to make the first move, and even shiver. I want to note that being in love with a one girl is really an empowering thing.
One girl can inspire you in so many ways. and my first girl was that. My dream girl whom i put in a desire list years ago, a mix Asian girl who rejected so many guys and go out with me. and she empowered me in many ways. But here's the thing,
As much as she is empowering you, you need to empower yourself.
You really need to, because every girl will be "different" once you're in love. Don't fight against it but rather have a clear conscience to separate yourself.
Because your life is not revolve around her and her life does not revolve around you. You might take the advice here and find a great girl, and then lose yourself altogether. I know, when you in love, it is empowering and it can also be dangerous if you do not acknowledge that you are indeed in love and suck into this emotional whirlwind.
You need to know, that in any subjects in life, there's two sides. and you have to recognize both as you walk the line.
Zac