Girlfriend admitted she has been an escort for the past month to me

[Shroud]

Over dinner yesterday she grabs my hands and tells me she has been an escort for the past month due to "desperate need of money" which she is not any means rich financially, but she is still going to college and paying for it, and has had multiple jobs where she has worked.

I myself am quite comfortable with money, but she wouldn't allow me to buy her anything during our relationship, most dates we would split the bill or i would cover one date and she would cover the next.

But back to the topic, I do not know how to really process this, my heart sank because it feels like she has been cheating on me, and i try my absolutely hardest not to lose my cool, which I eventually did and had to leave the restaurant.

My thoughts have been simply breaking up with her and walking away, because i'm not morally okay with it. Does anyone have any defining thoughts or other views? I am trying to be mature as possible and examine all views and see if I can gain any other perspectives.

 

[Drck]

If she hurts you by sleeping with other guys, and for money, dump her. Chances are that she will do it in the future too, she is simply not respecting you enough and next time she won't say anything...

 

[trashKENNUT]

Shroud,

" which she is not any means rich financially, but she is still going to college and paying for it, and has had multiple jobs where she has worked.

I myself am quite comfortable with money, but she wouldn't allow me to buy her anything during our relationship, most dates we would split the bill or i would cover one date and she would cover the next.

, because i'm not morally okay with it

Although one might be hurt, i still keep in contact with her, not with being in a relationship. She's a cool chick, not long term material maybe but she's cool, to be honest.

Zac

 

[Shroud]

Yeah I believe I will have to think about this a lot, she has been continually texting me, and calling me but I have ignored her. I believe if this was a year ago without my abundance mentality I would have stuck with her, and probably justified somehow in my head, but its a gross practice, not to mention extremely dangerous.

I take it to heart as well as one of my best friends was raped in college, and no it was not at a party or she was drunk, but a roommate went into her room and did it, thankfully he is in jail as he is monster to do that, and she still has nightmares from it till this day.

She is pretty cool, and she is a lot like me in many ways, but I think I need time away from her as it stings a lot for someone that I trusted to betray it with desperate losers, so maybe in some way I could be friends with her in the future, but as it stands I think I need to walk away and save myself from the trouble of pain that it has caused me.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Don't be too hard on yourself.

 

[Tim Iron]

My advice is - cut her off and don't look back. That is the whole essence of being non-judgemental with ladies, so you can know who they truly are and decide whether to continue or not... if it did not bother you, you would not open a thread, you would just turn her into a fuck buddy and nothing else but for you to open a thread means it bothers you... so, just cut her off and move on.

Yeah I believe I will have to think about this a lot, she has been continually texting me, and calling me but I have ignored her. I believe if this was a year ago without my abundance mentality I would have stuck with her, and probably justified somehow in my head, but its a gross practice, not to mention extremely dangerous.

I take it to heart as well as one of my best friends was raped in college, and no it was not at a party or she was drunk, but a roommate went into her room and did it, thankfully he is in jail as he is monster to do that, and she still has nightmares from it till this day.

She is pretty cool, and she is a lot like me in many ways, but I think I need time away from her as it stings a lot for someone that I trusted to betray it with desperate losers, so maybe in some way I could be friends with her in the future, but as it stands I think I need to walk away and save myself from the trouble of pain that it has caused me.