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Girlfriend stopped texting me?

KollegahDerBoss

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Hey,
my girlfriend stopped texting me since 3 days now, but she comes online in Whatsapp literally every hour.
Is she testing me if I would contact her first? I haven't done anything that could possibly make her mad... the last thing she wrote to me was "I love you."

Should I contact her? Should I wait for her to contact me?

I feel like the first to contact will be the weakest.
 

Loser2Winner

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did u reply after she said she loved you?

if u didn't then she's obvi mad about that.

if u did then i would pull the preemptive break up on her. tell her that u don't wanna play games and end it and she'll beg for forgiveness
 

KollegahDerBoss

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I did reply on that day but she still hasn't texted me.

It's been like 4-5 days..should I break up? If yes, how?
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

KollegahDerBoss

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UPDATE: I did a preemptive breakup, she wants to know why - I didn't tell her yet.
She started guessing with things like "Is it because I love someone else? But how could you knew that?"
She also put in her status this to make me jealous: "Youuuu (love smiley)" implicating that she would already love someone else.

Should I tell her why? Should I stop contacting her?
 

KollegahDerBoss

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Whatever, she told she loves someone else.
1 Month of relationship thrown in the bin...great.
 

Lotus

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Thank her for not wasting any more of your time. 1 month is nothing.

I would just see if you can learn anything from it. Were there early warning signs you ignored to be with her? Did you not give her what she wanted and she found someone who could?

It is probably one of the two and your pretty lucky it happened after a month rathen then a year.
 
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