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Hi Guys,
I've suddenly found myself in a difficult situation after being in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship for 2.5 months. Everything has been awesome between us from the chemistry of emotions to sex, etc. We were seeing each other about 2-3 days a week after the first month--mostly the weekend and one day during the week.
Two weeks ago, after spending the weekend with her, she calls me and tells me that a very close friend of hers and her family's was killed in an accident the previous day. Unfortunately, the person was closely tied with her ex husband and her children for the past 20 years. Sadly, it has thrown a big wrench into our relationship and the texts and phone calls have dropped significantly since then--especially since the funeral last week.
Previous to the tragic event, we had tickets to see a show over the weekend. So 4 days after the funeral we went to the show as planned and we had a great time. We went back to her place and had sex that night and the next morning. I've been as supportive as I possibly can without going overboard. The night before the funeral, she called me a number of times to talk and then I insisted on coming over to keep her company and help her sleep. I ended up staying overnight with her until the next day--up until the funeral service. I did not push for sex that day at all. We just kissed, hugged and cuddled, etc. She thanked me for everything before we went our separate ways later that day.
I've been getting support from a handful of men and women friends using discretion as best as I can. This past week, we had very little contact with each other. Two very short phone calls during the week and a few texts with each other daily (also very brief). I didn't want to overdo things or come off needy. Then out of the blue, she called me then came over to my place and we visited for a bit then got intimate. And then she had to go to social event later that day.
I've dealt with a family death before when I was married ten years ago. But we were married for about 4 years when that tragic event occurred. But I've never had to deal with this so early in a relationship and just looking additional guidance, support, and suggestions. Oh, and we've been together a little over three months now. Thanks....
I've suddenly found myself in a difficult situation after being in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship for 2.5 months. Everything has been awesome between us from the chemistry of emotions to sex, etc. We were seeing each other about 2-3 days a week after the first month--mostly the weekend and one day during the week.
Two weeks ago, after spending the weekend with her, she calls me and tells me that a very close friend of hers and her family's was killed in an accident the previous day. Unfortunately, the person was closely tied with her ex husband and her children for the past 20 years. Sadly, it has thrown a big wrench into our relationship and the texts and phone calls have dropped significantly since then--especially since the funeral last week.
Previous to the tragic event, we had tickets to see a show over the weekend. So 4 days after the funeral we went to the show as planned and we had a great time. We went back to her place and had sex that night and the next morning. I've been as supportive as I possibly can without going overboard. The night before the funeral, she called me a number of times to talk and then I insisted on coming over to keep her company and help her sleep. I ended up staying overnight with her until the next day--up until the funeral service. I did not push for sex that day at all. We just kissed, hugged and cuddled, etc. She thanked me for everything before we went our separate ways later that day.
I've been getting support from a handful of men and women friends using discretion as best as I can. This past week, we had very little contact with each other. Two very short phone calls during the week and a few texts with each other daily (also very brief). I didn't want to overdo things or come off needy. Then out of the blue, she called me then came over to my place and we visited for a bit then got intimate. And then she had to go to social event later that day.
I've dealt with a family death before when I was married ten years ago. But we were married for about 4 years when that tragic event occurred. But I've never had to deal with this so early in a relationship and just looking additional guidance, support, and suggestions. Oh, and we've been together a little over three months now. Thanks....
