Girls all over the place

[JimmyB]

I travel a lot.
This has been both good and bad for romantic prospects. It allows me to hook up with different girls, but it makes it difficult to ever keep a relationship going. Let's say I go to a place, Florida, let's say, 2 weeks out of the year for holidays. There's a girl there that I hit it off with - we hook up and it goes great. But I know I won't be back there for a year probably. What if I really like the girl/she likes me? Do you keep contact? Or do you just pick up where you left off next time and hope she doesn't have a boyfriend? I don't talk to these girls and I'm off of social media, but I'm kind of curious how to start back up.
JB

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

JimmyB

This depends on what your final goal is. Do you want to have lovers or are you looking for a long term relationship (LTR)? If you want an LTR it is better to look at your home location where you can spend time together. Long distance relationships suck. But if you are really interested look at some of ray_zorse's journal. viewtopic.php?t=8232 He lives in Australia and has girlfriends in Japan. He probably knows more about how to handle long distance relationships than anyone else on here.

If you want lovers then you don't need to worry about keeping up a relationship. What you do is get her contact information. When you are going to be in her area, contact her ahead of time to set up a date. Don't worry about keeping contact in between. If she gets in a relationship then so be it. There is nothing you can do to stop this via long distance anyway. It is time to prospect for different ladies in that area. Be like the sailor with a girl (actually many girls) in each port. If you want some good insight into having girls at many ports look at Seppuku's journal. He does very well with this. viewtopic.php?f=15&t=8805

SGent

 

[Zoro]

Hey JimmyB,

I once met an awesome cute&sexy girl the night before I was to leave for a 2 month cross country trip. We got intimate that night, and got together after I came back and saw each other regularly for months.

The important parts are that you get intimate quickly and leave on a very good note. Good sex and good times. She's got to know you can get the job done next time you're in town, and be looking forward to it. You want her thinking of you as a desirable, dominant man whose now off onto his next adventure.

At the start of the trip I texted her a little bit (I was really into this girl, boarding on needy!), but realized a desirable man would not be hung up on a girl who's not around, especially while on a fun trip. He's got things going on, girls to chase. So I cut out the texting for the rest of the trip. I struck it back up about two weeks before coming home to rekindle the interaction and let her know I was coming home soon and wanting to see her.

We set up a time, got together and picked it up where we left off.

So the main points are
-get intimate quick and leave on a good note
-give her a farewell text or two and NOTHING MORE
-live your life and forget the girl
-if you are coming back into town, see if she's around and set up a date

 

[JimmyB]

Thanks guys, both very helpful posts.