Observations Girls assuming that you are too high value, and acting skeptical when you approa

[moolar]

My friends, I greet you all!
Something I've been noticing for a while now...thought I should share it with you.

So, I've noticed that as one becomes more socially adept and calibrated, and physically attractive too, average girls(in the looks department) and below average girls start treating one with skepticism once you go out of your way to approach them. Initially, when I started experiencing this, I felt something must be seriously wrong with my GAME...and honestly, there were times I felt I was gonna quit seduction for good. Of course, I never was able to have understood that, their skepticism towards me was merely just a sign of improvement on my part.

Anyways, after a while, I started asking these girls the impression they had of me whenever it is that I approach them. And guess what,friends?

I found light, friends!

As a matter of fact, make it a point of asking girls what they truly think of you. It really helps you keep a tab on areas where you are doing great, and areas where results are not so good.
So as I was saying, these girls started talking....and funny enough, almost all of them emphasized the point that 'I must be currently dating prettier and hotter girls', and as such, my interest in them made no sense. Lol. Surprised, yeah? I was too.
Seriously, I never would have thought that these girls, with all the immense "Asspower" they have, would be complete psychological wimps. If only they understood that, when it comes to performing the mating dance, men rarely pay attention to those issues they think we pay attention to. Smh.

Anyways, there it is, friends. Just know that, not in all cases, when girls reject you, that they think you a worthless,frustrated and pussy-starved chump. At times, they actually consider you a god, while they themselves are just filthy denizens of some leprous planet not worthy of your patronage.

ADVICE: start approaching and meeting hotter, classier and high value girls as you game improves.

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: Girls assuming that you are too high value, and acting skeptical when you ap

Well, that's attainability brother. And yeah I was 100% surprised when I first ran into attainability problems, Chase kindly analyzed my interaction and pointed it out to me (thanks Chase). Before that I'd kinda pegged it as an interesting but abstract concept that I would study later on if need be. But it's more common than you think. Look out for girls acting bitchy and resentful... if it were a value problem they'd be trying to let you down gently. I've been reading Chase's ebook for the nth time lately and I always get something new from attainability section. You don't necessarily need to raise your standards, you can employ the right kind of attainability tech to reassure her that yes, you are for real, and she can potentially get you if she works hard. Note that it's not necessarily about whether she can sleep with you, though that's part of it. It's also about whether she perceives you as a player, likely to use+dump her, or speaking more generally: can she get her needs met by you.
-Ray

 

[moolar]

Re: Girls assuming that you are too high value, and acting skeptical when you ap

Spot on, ray_zorse!

In fact, presently I do have a girl whom I'm still trying to bed. She's just average....nothing out of the ordinary. And lemme tell you, this girl has the hots for me! But then, perhaps because I came off too smooth and almost player-like, she has an impression of me as a highly sexual man who lays girls nonstop and dumps them afterwards. 'Tis Bitch a nutcase! Lol.

Anyways, she knows I want to bed her, and if the chance presents itself, I would snatch it(probably she has refused countless invitation from me to visit my crib) ...and she has even told me, severally, of how she can read me too well and all that jazz. And unbelievably enough, she says my interest in her turns her on mighty. But she's always asking me, "Mr, how about them other bitties in yo life?". Now, while she honestly digs the shit out of me, she's super- wary of what might become of her after she fucks me. Funny girl. I don't blame her though.

So as you have said, it's really all about flexibility: dialing down attainability, and also keeping a tight, secure lid over the player status when necessary, at least for these type of girls. Flexibility, friends! Be water!!