Girls downplaying boyfriends

[Winston]

Something happened to me recently on 2 occurrences and I am wondering if it has any meaning.

I was talking with girls in a context of a loose social circle (meaning I am not friends with them but with have friends in common, so there is some implied expectations that we could see each other again at social events... or keep in touch with insta...), and while we were talking, they both kind of hide, or downplayed, to me the fact that they have a boyfriend.

1st occurrence with a 1st girl:
We were in holidays with a group of friends, she asked me when I am leaving the place of our holidays. I answered at the end of the week, and in return I asked her the same thing. She told she was leaving sooner, the next day, because she has to get back to work.

But I learned from other sources that she actually was leaving sooner to spend of few of holidays with her boyfriend in another destination.

So she told me she went back early for working while in reality she went back for holidays with her boyfriend. But to be clear, she didn't hide to me the fact that she had a boyfriend during the conversation.

And overall, she was really "nice" with me and asking me many questions about me during the conversations we had together.

2nd occurrence with a 2nd girl:
Another girl, another place of holidays. I knew she had a boyfriend, she told me that she just kind of break up with him and soon she was going on holidays to another location (destination X), alone.

Then the day after, I spoke with her best friend and... this friend told me that she was still with her boyfriend.
And now I am seeing her insta stories and she is in destination X, and her boyfriend appear in some of her stories. So she is not alone there, and they didn't break up. Contrary to what she told me.

And overall during our conversation her body language was leaning towards me, she was slightly touching me (granted she was tipsy)... she was looking for similarities between us. I felt something was "on".

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So my question is simple. Is these kind of "boyfriend downplaying behaviors/communications" are sign of interest towards me, or am I reading too much into this?

Or maybe this sign is not related specifically to me, and they are just kind of lining up guys/playing seduction games just for the sake of having options and have no specific interest towards me?

 

[DoWhatWorks]

my question is simple. Is these kind of "boyfriend downplaying behaviors/communications" are sign of interest towards me

Yes

Or maybe this sign is not related specifically to me, and they are just kind of lining up guys/playing seduction games just for the sake of having options

Only way to know for sure is

A) to subtly share how you don't kiss and tell, bring up secret society frames then escalate in a plausible deniable way and see if she bites.

E.g. Ahh find it so odd when guys feel the need to share they've kissed a girl, like we're not 12 ahha. Anyway where you guys staying?

No way, I'm over in xyz, we got lucky with the balcony, wanna check it out on the way back?

We live in the same direction so feel free to share a lift home with me...

Freestyling off the cuff but you get the idea

B) Play dumb and escalate on her like she's single (I've genuinely slept with taken girls and not realized until after this way)

 

[Winston]

Very instructive answer @DoWhatWorks , thanks!

I have started to sleep with my last girlfriend while she was with her boyfriend. And while it was before me digging into game, I indeed intuitively just escalate on her like she was single. I knew she had a boyfriend because the first time I meet her, I meet him at the same time. And she even complained about him during our first date.

But she was chasing me hard, so I did not put too much thought about what I did well and how I did it. Her strong signs of interest made me feel more confident with her and made me escalate without second guessing the need to escalate.

 

[Skills]

Something happened to me recently on 2 occurrences and I am wondering if it has any meaning.

I was talking with girls in a context of a loose social circle (meaning I am not friends with them but with have friends in common, so there is some implied expectations that we could see each other again at social events... or keep in touch with insta...), and while we were talking, they both kind of hide, or downplayed, to me the fact that they have a boyfriend.

1st occurrence with a 1st girl:
We were in holidays with a group of friends, she asked me when I am leaving the place of our holidays. I answered at the end of the week, and in return I asked her the same thing. She told she was leaving sooner, the next day, because she has to get back to work.

But I learned from other sources that she actually was leaving sooner to spend of few of holidays with her boyfriend in another destination.

So she told me she went back early for working while in reality she went back for holidays with her boyfriend. But to be clear, she didn't hide to me the fact that she had a boyfriend during the conversation.

And overall, she was really "nice" with me and asking me many questions about me during the conversations we had together.

2nd occurrence with a 2nd girl:
Another girl, another place of holidays. I knew she had a boyfriend, she told me that she just kind of break up with him and soon she was going on holidays to another location (destination X), alone.

Then the day after, I spoke with her best friend and... this friend told me that she was still with her boyfriend.
And now I am seeing her insta stories and she is in destination X, and her boyfriend appear in some of her stories. So she is not alone there, and they didn't break up. Contrary to what she told me.

And overall during our conversation her body language was leaning towards me, she was slightly touching me (granted she was tipsy)... she was looking for similarities between us. I felt something was "on".

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So my question is simple. Is these kind of "boyfriend downplaying behaviors/communications" are sign of interest towards me, or am I reading too much into this?

Or maybe this sign is not related specifically to me, and they are just kind of lining up guys/playing seduction games just for the sake of having options and have no specific interest towards me?

Winston you need to find out what box those girls fall in based on your interaction, i explain the dynamics like a baby here: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/the-3-i-have-a-boyfriend-scenarios.24645/


these girls fall in box number 2:

2.- She has a boyfriend but will cheat.- This girl will cheat in scenarios such as boyfriend is a cheater, boyfriend is in a one sides open relationship (he can cheat but she can't eventually she will get sick of this), notice that i left out in an open relationship cause in that case she will let you know she is, traveling (since i am traveling does not count, good example Vegas), revenge fuck, she is pissed at boyfriend, final stages of the relationship, almost over, boyfriend long distance, military or jail, boyfriend unattractive and totally betazized, she is ok with cheating. (some girls have no problem cheating for _____ fill in the blank reason)

^ in this case she may announce that she has a boyfriend, but will bring up problems with him, or say she has a boyfriend and body language, subcommunications and actions will betray her... she in this case will announce she has a boyfriend as take off the responsability or wrong doing on to you, chick logic "i told him i had a boyfriend".... So in this case is were all the little pick up boyfriend destroyers work, i personally use only 2: "awesome" and act really exited, just friends, and i cont. with the seduction, or i say "he can cook us breakfast in the morning" and cont. with seduction, but then i subcommunicate verbally that:

- i am not clinger and stalker.
- i don't judge
- i am safe
- i don't want to replace or for her to leave her boyfriend.
- i am discreent/secret society/lover/seducer.
- that i will not judge her as slut or whore..