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See here's a situation that I've come across recently that I haven't really seen addressed on the main site.
For example: A + B are dating in a serious monogamous relationship. You fancy A but don't get too close, keep her on the outer edges of the circle, etc, as Chase talked about in his article, sleeping with girls in your social circle. But then in the meantime, B becomes part of your social circle and manages to attain 'bro-status' with all your bro's. Finally A + B break up and A starts flirting with you. Now, here's the kicker. If you sleep with A, and B finds out, you can get ostracized from the group.
I'm sure most of you who have done social circle games may have had this scenario come up. My question is, what have you done to try and minimize the risk of adverse reactions? On the one hand, you don't want to be the guy who doesn't 'understand girls' cues' and gives them what they want; on the other, you don't want to be that 'PUA seducer' that throws your bro's under the bus for the girl. Thoughts?
For example: A + B are dating in a serious monogamous relationship. You fancy A but don't get too close, keep her on the outer edges of the circle, etc, as Chase talked about in his article, sleeping with girls in your social circle. But then in the meantime, B becomes part of your social circle and manages to attain 'bro-status' with all your bro's. Finally A + B break up and A starts flirting with you. Now, here's the kicker. If you sleep with A, and B finds out, you can get ostracized from the group.
I'm sure most of you who have done social circle games may have had this scenario come up. My question is, what have you done to try and minimize the risk of adverse reactions? On the one hand, you don't want to be the guy who doesn't 'understand girls' cues' and gives them what they want; on the other, you don't want to be that 'PUA seducer' that throws your bro's under the bus for the girl. Thoughts?
