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Hey this is a huge problem that I have been having recently. I just got back to school and I started trying to talk to some of my old hookups to get into the back to school mood 
. I figured that it wouldn't be hard, since we have hooked up before. I couldn't have been more wrong. Both of the girls had gone cold and neither will talk to me, which made for some pretty awkward situations. But I figured no problem, there's always another girl out there and ended up getting a girls number at a party. She was into me, but was holding back, and was telling me how she was more than a one night thing. We hung out a little the next day, but I never got her alone. (invited her up to my room, but no luck) During the night she came to my party and while I was excited I didn't want to chase her. So I bounced around from group to group at a party and ended up talking to a good friend of mine. Eventually I realized that she was getting really drunk and I left trying to find the girl. Unfortunately, she had left, but we had a class together so I figured it was no big deal. The next day in class, she's completely cold, switches seats to be further away from me and keeps stealing looks/glares at me. It was so bad that i just brought my computer the next day and made sure to not give her any attention.
I'm really sick of the whole "girls gone cold" thing. Not because I need them, or that I'm into one girl, but because its making things really awkward and I don't want a pack of girls following me with glares and giving me the silent treatment. Why are girls going cold on me? Could this be auto-reject?
This is more specific than most of my other posts, but I still think its general enough to provide some value for other guys so I figured I'd post it here. Does Chase have any articles on this?
. I figured that it wouldn't be hard, since we have hooked up before. I couldn't have been more wrong. Both of the girls had gone cold and neither will talk to me, which made for some pretty awkward situations. But I figured no problem, there's always another girl out there and ended up getting a girls number at a party. She was into me, but was holding back, and was telling me how she was more than a one night thing. We hung out a little the next day, but I never got her alone. (invited her up to my room, but no luck) During the night she came to my party and while I was excited I didn't want to chase her. So I bounced around from group to group at a party and ended up talking to a good friend of mine. Eventually I realized that she was getting really drunk and I left trying to find the girl. Unfortunately, she had left, but we had a class together so I figured it was no big deal. The next day in class, she's completely cold, switches seats to be further away from me and keeps stealing looks/glares at me. It was so bad that i just brought my computer the next day and made sure to not give her any attention.I'm really sick of the whole "girls gone cold" thing. Not because I need them, or that I'm into one girl, but because its making things really awkward and I don't want a pack of girls following me with glares and giving me the silent treatment. Why are girls going cold on me? Could this be auto-reject?
This is more specific than most of my other posts, but I still think its general enough to provide some value for other guys so I figured I'd post it here. Does Chase have any articles on this?
