Girls in Pairs?

[Hugh]

What's up all,

I'm new to the forum, but not new to GC. The past couple weekends I've been going to bars/clubs solo and am constantly running into girls in pairs, which is cool, but makes it so much harder to escalate with my TOI. How would you handle the girls friend? When I to try to keep the friend moderately engaged, it drastically stunts my seduction with my girl. When I don't engage her friend, she either feels left out and my TOI feel obligated to tend to her, or the friend tries to pull my girl away. Any advice would be great

Thanks
Hugh

 

[Richard]

I've been working on this myself. Open the girl you're interested in and only her unless she mentions her friend, in which case, engage the friend but keep your body language focused on the girl you're interested in. Or you could pull the 70/30 or 80/20 bit, giving the majority of the attention to the girl you like, and the minimum amount of attention to the friend. But only if she chooses to introduce the friend!
Hope this helped,
Richard

 

[Hugh]

I agree with not engaging the friend, and I do this when I can, but in some situations its unavoidable. I guess the best thing to do if she's not going to break away from her friend would be to grab her number and part ways.

 

[Richard]

Its a little weird, and for me, girls in pairs are a little more difficult than groups. In a group, you open the girl in charge, the one talking the most, moving the most, and its easy to tell. With a pair, its a little harder because circumstances tend to allow either girl to seem to be the dominant one. So, you always want to find out who is dominant then win her over (sometimes its the girl you want, sometimes its the other). I'm still experimenting with this myself, but I've also found it best to open the girl who seems to be in control.