Tonight I went to say hi to two girls and a guy in a very difficult situation. I stayed for a while and my target (Target from now on) eventually said no.
Fine.
Overall we had a good time and I left in good standing.
When I was leaving I went to say goodbye.
There were just the two girls, the guy was not there.
I put my hand out to the friend first.
Suddenly Target slapped the other girl's hand to stop her from shaking mine and started making out with her.
This was a normal bar and nobody was making out.
Suddenly I'm standing in front of two girls sitting and making out while I'm standing. It looks terrible for me, I raise my shoulder as if to say "crazy girls", turn around and walk away.
First time I experience something similar, what the fuck was that, how did I become an enemy.
I didn't handle too badly but I'm angry at myself from not having done better (I hate people being mean for no reason).
I wonder: how would you have handled that?
Fine.
Overall we had a good time and I left in good standing.
When I was leaving I went to say goodbye.
There were just the two girls, the guy was not there.
I put my hand out to the friend first.
Suddenly Target slapped the other girl's hand to stop her from shaking mine and started making out with her.
This was a normal bar and nobody was making out.
Suddenly I'm standing in front of two girls sitting and making out while I'm standing. It looks terrible for me, I raise my shoulder as if to say "crazy girls", turn around and walk away.
First time I experience something similar, what the fuck was that, how did I become an enemy.
I didn't handle too badly but I'm angry at myself from not having done better (I hate people being mean for no reason).
I wonder: how would you have handled that?