Girls Revealing Boyfriend at Different Stages

[Rage]

Observed a fascinating sort of data set in the past few weeks.

Each of these girls were each quite into me, moving with me, asking me questions, giving signs and being compliant and fairly sexually open too.

Each also has a boyfriend:

Girl 1) Me- Hey we should get food sometime

Her- Oh that’s sweet but I’m dating someone

Girl 2) Me- We should get food sometime

Her- Oh yeah definitely

We set a day; text her to follow up

Her- oh actually well I don’t think my boyfriend would approve

Girl 3) Meet goes well, escalating, grabbing each other, making out get her shirt off, escalating further with my hand on her poonani

Her- Wait we shouldn’t do this I have a boyfriend

Girl 4) I fuck her, cum inside her, we get done…

Her- I hope my boyfriend doesn’t find out

…

I can make some guesses from the data… and can figure it’s different girl to girl.

But what designates when a girl does reveal this, if she does reveal this? Not sure if it matters either, I think many girls will still fuck you if they do have a boyfriend or if they do reveal to me they have a boyfriend.

But am ambiguous about the rule(s) here specifically.

-Gem

 

[Mr.Rob]

Had a girl recently I brought home that started crying during escalation and brought up her boyfriend (who she originally brought up at the beginning of the escalation but I didn't deem "real" until she started crying).

In my opinion, which should be taken with a grain of salt, I think that the girl needs to be A) very attracted to you and B) less attracted to her boyfriend (which a most girls our age can easily fall into)

I know my roommate who in a monogamous relationship is really only in it to get sex on a regular basis and isn't highly highly attracted to him (I can tell if a sexy man met her when she was in the right headspace she'd easily and gladly go home with him) but nonetheless would feel bad if she "cheated" on him because she'd judge herself as being bad because of how society says she should act in a monogamous relationship.

Honestly I think more girls our age should consider open relationships because I think a lot of girls sacrifice a lot of personal happiness being in a relationship they aren't even all that passionate about.

Your thoughts?

 

[Rage]

Agreed valid pints bro. Going against the norm and the status quo something that girls will struggle to do if they haven't much before (so being open and non judgmental and conveying that beforehand becomes fundamentally important there yeah). And open relationships, well those are the girls I think that just stay single and will just be "oh yeah I'm single" and maybe go out and stuff more, I guess (more sexually liberated and open girls).

Most girls will be way more attracted to the seducer than their boyfriend, but whether they act on it or do anything my guess is yeah dependent on circumstance, individual girl, and what headspace they're in as you mentioned too.