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So this was probably the least effort I've put into a date, but this girl also seemed really dtf. Her name is Chris
I met her on tinder. The texting was pretty uninteresting, but I can post if anyone is interested. Mainly, she was the one who suggested meeting up. That rarely happens. She was an Asian hipster chick with piercings and dyed hair.
The date
I didn't masturbate all week in preparation for this (and some other girl who flaked yesterday) but then Chris didn't respond to my text last night confirming if we were still down. so I thought it was a flake for sure. So I masturbated twice this morning (I was so fucking horny lol) but then Chris texts me right before dinner saying she's down! lol so I'm thinking "okay w/e"
We agree to meet up for dinner at this restaurant across the street from my apartment. Thankfully, we're seated next to each other but I don't really take advantage of this to use touch. We just talk about hobbies, what we're studying etc... Some deep diving, but it's mostly just "get-to-know-you" talk. Then we mention TV shows and I suggest we watch Rick and Morty after dinner. She's down. We stop by the store next door to buy some wine and then we head back to the apt. I give her a quick tour, and then we start watching the show. I put my arm around her. In the middle, I push her hair aside, and near the end I hold her hand and rub it a little. When the show ends, we start making out and there's zero resistance to sex. Now recall that I had masturbated twice, so I got soft after a while and couldn't get hard again. So I just tried fingering her. Sometimes she was moaning, but I couldn't do it hard enough consistently for her to orgasm. I was just trying to stimulate her G-spot...This is something I need to learn to do FINGERING!
Then when she senses I'm all worn out, she pulls my condom off and gives me the most intense blowjob I've had my entire life! I climax within a few minutes and she swallows like a champ. then we cuddle for a few minutes. I ask her if she had anticipated having sex before meeting up. She says no lol. so then I ask her when she knew we were going to have sex. She says it was when I put my arm around her.
A little while later she says she has to leave because she has class at 9am the next morning. She uses the bathroom and then rushes out to get an uber. wow
So any ideas on why girls are in a hurry to leave after hooking up? It's happened before and in both cases, the girls say they had hw to finish, but it really didn't sound like urgent hw. This girl said she had a 9am class, but she also anticipated spending time smoking some weed with her friends later tonight. So she didn't want to stay.
Lessons I've learned
--Do not masturbate before a date, even if you think it'll be a flake or that the girl won't go for sex. Sometimes you get laid when you don't expect it. I still need to internalize that girls are horny af.
--Learn how to give girls orgasms--I've still never accomplished this, even with my hands or mouth, let alone my dick.
--My physical escalation was nonexistent on this one. With some girls I don't think this would've been enough.
--Meet to sex only took 4 hrs, so don't let time be a limiting belief, not that I really thought about it before...but still
I met her on tinder. The texting was pretty uninteresting, but I can post if anyone is interested. Mainly, she was the one who suggested meeting up. That rarely happens. She was an Asian hipster chick with piercings and dyed hair.
The date
I didn't masturbate all week in preparation for this (and some other girl who flaked yesterday) but then Chris didn't respond to my text last night confirming if we were still down. so I thought it was a flake for sure. So I masturbated twice this morning (I was so fucking horny lol) but then Chris texts me right before dinner saying she's down! lol so I'm thinking "okay w/e"
We agree to meet up for dinner at this restaurant across the street from my apartment. Thankfully, we're seated next to each other but I don't really take advantage of this to use touch. We just talk about hobbies, what we're studying etc... Some deep diving, but it's mostly just "get-to-know-you" talk. Then we mention TV shows and I suggest we watch Rick and Morty after dinner. She's down. We stop by the store next door to buy some wine and then we head back to the apt. I give her a quick tour, and then we start watching the show. I put my arm around her. In the middle, I push her hair aside, and near the end I hold her hand and rub it a little. When the show ends, we start making out and there's zero resistance to sex. Now recall that I had masturbated twice, so I got soft after a while and couldn't get hard again. So I just tried fingering her. Sometimes she was moaning, but I couldn't do it hard enough consistently for her to orgasm. I was just trying to stimulate her G-spot...This is something I need to learn to do FINGERING!
Then when she senses I'm all worn out, she pulls my condom off and gives me the most intense blowjob I've had my entire life! I climax within a few minutes and she swallows like a champ. then we cuddle for a few minutes. I ask her if she had anticipated having sex before meeting up. She says no lol. so then I ask her when she knew we were going to have sex. She says it was when I put my arm around her.
A little while later she says she has to leave because she has class at 9am the next morning. She uses the bathroom and then rushes out to get an uber. wow
So any ideas on why girls are in a hurry to leave after hooking up? It's happened before and in both cases, the girls say they had hw to finish, but it really didn't sound like urgent hw. This girl said she had a 9am class, but she also anticipated spending time smoking some weed with her friends later tonight. So she didn't want to stay.
Lessons I've learned
--Do not masturbate before a date, even if you think it'll be a flake or that the girl won't go for sex. Sometimes you get laid when you don't expect it. I still need to internalize that girls are horny af.
--Learn how to give girls orgasms--I've still never accomplished this, even with my hands or mouth, let alone my dick.
--My physical escalation was nonexistent on this one. With some girls I don't think this would've been enough.
--Meet to sex only took 4 hrs, so don't let time be a limiting belief, not that I really thought about it before...but still
