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Hey Matt,
Normally when it comes to these situations, I go more indirect and use situational openers on these types of girls. Because in truth some people just don't want to be bother, doesn't stop me from attempting to open them though.
Your Example: Bus Route, an honest question
Dave: Hey, do you know what time the bus comes?
Girl: Will give response
Dave: Oh, wow! How long have you been out here?
*It's just a simple way of getting into a conversation, from there you can take it wherever. IF the girl seems unresponsive make your exit though.
The library: When I spot a girl in a sorority
I spotted a girl who had her head down low and was off in the corner. She was a gorgeous blonde girl, and was had a great body from what I could tell.
Dave: Do you know where the printer is on this floor?
Girl: *Without lifting head* There's not one on this floor
Dave: *pauses* really? where's the closet one?
Girl: *Lifts head* downstairs?
Dave: *notices her letters* wait you're a *insert sorority here, note must be able to read greek alphabet.*
Girl: yeah...?
Dave: I'm a theta chi, I don't know a lot of sisters in your sorority, what are you guys like?
Girl: *excited now*
A lot of times a girl could be stuck in autopilot and if you're cold approaching these girls and if they're not in the mode to talk it can be almost like pulling teeth until you find common ground. What I like about questions is, it keeps things from getting awkward if things go awry. Very rarely will a girl tell her friend, "Can you believe that guy ASKED ME where the printer was, as if!!!" or "I can't believe he thought I'd tell him what time it was?" You just gotta know how to work it and try new things and see what gives the best results.
Questions, comments, concerns?!
Just Dave
Normally when it comes to these situations, I go more indirect and use situational openers on these types of girls. Because in truth some people just don't want to be bother, doesn't stop me from attempting to open them though.
Your Example: Bus Route, an honest question
Dave: Hey, do you know what time the bus comes?
Girl: Will give response
Dave: Oh, wow! How long have you been out here?
*It's just a simple way of getting into a conversation, from there you can take it wherever. IF the girl seems unresponsive make your exit though.
The library: When I spot a girl in a sorority
I spotted a girl who had her head down low and was off in the corner. She was a gorgeous blonde girl, and was had a great body from what I could tell.
Dave: Do you know where the printer is on this floor?
Girl: *Without lifting head* There's not one on this floor
Dave: *pauses* really? where's the closet one?
Girl: *Lifts head* downstairs?
Dave: *notices her letters* wait you're a *insert sorority here, note must be able to read greek alphabet.*
Girl: yeah...?
Dave: I'm a theta chi, I don't know a lot of sisters in your sorority, what are you guys like?
Girl: *excited now*
A lot of times a girl could be stuck in autopilot and if you're cold approaching these girls and if they're not in the mode to talk it can be almost like pulling teeth until you find common ground. What I like about questions is, it keeps things from getting awkward if things go awry. Very rarely will a girl tell her friend, "Can you believe that guy ASKED ME where the printer was, as if!!!" or "I can't believe he thought I'd tell him what time it was?" You just gotta know how to work it and try new things and see what gives the best results.
Questions, comments, concerns?!
Just Dave
