Girls that nobody else wants....

[Flames]

Ok, I'm no seriously suggesting that a girl that nobody wants, but what if you hear people talking about a girl who in their eyes 'has issues' or 'isn't worth bothering with', but you find the charming and easy going?

Would you let the opinion of friends matter in this case?

 

[PinotNoir]

As far as looks or "quirks", no. My friends and I have different tastes.

As far as personality... it depends. I like to judge for myself with my own experience/perspective. I think this is the best way to asses someone.

However, there have been times where I've been "blinded" by love, attachment, or lack of abundance. My friends would say, "Dude, she's being a complete bitch to you; stop dating her." This is when you need to listen.

Before you date, if people say she's crazy and cheats on all of her boyfriends or something like that, I'd just go into it with caution. Don't trust what they say 100%, but just be more attentive. I'm sure there are some people that say some pretty bad stuff about me behind my back. Most gossip is exaggerated.

Go for it. Judge for yourself. Be cautious.

 

[Flames]

As far as looks or "quirks", no. My friends and I have different tastes.

As far as personality... it depends. I like to judge for myself with my own experience/perspective. I think this is the best way to asses someone.

However, there have been times where I've been "blinded" by love, attachment, or lack of abundance. My friends would say, "Dude, she's being a complete bitch to you; stop dating her." This is when you need to listen.

Before you date, if people say she's crazy and cheats on all of her boyfriends or something like that, I'd just go into it with caution. Don't trust what they say 100%, but just be more attentive. I'm sure there are some people that say some pretty bad stuff about me behind my back. Most gossip is exaggerated.

Go for it. Judge for yourself. Be cautious.

I've had a full day to think about this and I think your right. I think in this case they might actually be right too, but the way forward is to act with caution and careful screening.

 

[Knight]

Flames, follow your gut. If you want anything with her just go for it. Remember you're a man who has the skills and ideas to lift others around you - even if it's only short lived her life will never be the same if you so choose. Whether that be good or bad. Peace.

 

[Flames]

Flames, follow your gut. If you want anything with her just go for it. Remember you're a man who has the skills and ideas to lift others around you - even if it's only short lived her life will never be the same if you so choose. Whether that be good or bad. Peace.

It's happened a few times recently with different girls that I've actually started to be put off, then had to stop myself. I was wondering what others think about it.

Thanks for replies.