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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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So lately I've had incidents with girls I thought would be certain ONS but then they take it back after our sex-talk.

The girls are usually into me, extrovert, experienced and horny.

Examples
One example was a dick grapper (she grapped my dick on df while dancing, under the pants yes) I tried to bounce from dance floor but she gave an excuse about her girlfriend being nearby and couldn't leave without her. Met her some weeks later and she was still into me but saying I'd be dangerous and she'd rather enjoy wine with me blabla while I was rubbing her clit. Again she didn't wanna bounce.

Another said she wanted me as bf but I told her I'm not that easy to attain for that. Later same night I see her with some random dude.

So far I can only point these things out:

- I give them too much pleasure in just being near me and should punish/ignore them when they do that and walk over to some other girls nearby.
- Give them the excuse in their head that there might be a chance for me to be bf.

I usually try to extract them directly home with some excuse (food etc.) or to another bar first.

Am I missing something?
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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A couple things:

1. BF disqualifiers. Tell them in no uncertain terms that you're not looking for a relationship.
2. Check this thread I posted a few days ago. Discussed a similar topic. viewtopic.php?f=3&t=11802
 
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