Girls who are taken?

[Thinkingenigma]

So I've been reviewing my recent interactions and I've started to notice a trend. The girls who are interested in me are mostly those who are either dating someone else already, or who are about to be in a relationship with someone else (in this case, one of my really good friends). The girl who is about to be in a relationship with my friend actually broke off her conversation with him yesterday to come talk to me across the room. I hadn't even given an indication that I was planning to come over there. Then a girl at work has been flirting with me and even went as far as to ask ME out the day after we met (I was working at the time, so I couldn't). I later found out that she has a boyfriend when I looked at her facebook. There are other examples that I could point to, but those are the most obvious. This pattern is nearly universal across my interactions. I can only point to one girl who is definitely single where there is mutual interest at the moment.

I guess I have three questions about this. First, why do you think I attract girls in relationships but not those who are single? Second, what should I do with the girls who are interested but in relationships or with good friends? Third, what can I do to increase my attractiveness to single girls in particular? I've got most of the fundamentals down at the moment (fashion, grooming, walk, voice, etc.) I'm mainly working on my energy levels and my process right now.

 

[Just_Dave]

Hey Thinking,

First, why do you think I attract girls in relationships but not those who are single? Second, what should I do with the girls who are interested but in relationships or with good friends? Third, what can I do to increase my attractiveness to single girls in particular? I've got most of the fundamentals down at the moment (fashion, grooming, walk, voice, etc.) I'm mainly working on my energy levels and my process right now.

Great post with good questions. First things first I want to give you the link a reference to Chase's post on this very topic. https://www.girlschase.com/content/girl-has-boyfriend-3-things-do-and-7-things-not

1. Girls its the "grass is greener" approach to life. They want something they can't have, and/or their boyfriend has been messing up and they're looking for new prospects. Either because she lost attraction to the guy or she's mad. The point girls or women rather are always looking for a strong and sexy partner.

2. I refer you to post Chase wrote.

3. Confidence my friend, and natural selection. By that when girls see you talking to other girls, they think "Hey, this guy is good with the ladies and must be a good partner." Single girls ironically like girls in taken relationships, go figure. However, getting to know a girl who deep diving, listening, relating, and moving quickly help with any women. Single or taken.

Take care,

Just Dave