Girls With Boyfriends
Greetings To The World Of Seducers... It Truly Is... A Secret Society
I have a little Mindset I have picked up on along the way, and I would Love to Share it. Question Is...
How Do I Get With Girls With Boyfriends
Great Question! Let's Break It Down.
In the World of Seduction, you'll run into a lot of women that say the magic words "I Have A Boyfriend" as if it's supposed to stop your GAME from winning. Nuh-Uh. I've been through enough rejections to know that if a woman isn't interested, she wouldn't accept your direct opener. It's That Simple. So if you approach her, she smiles and laughs, and participates in conversation, she is playing a part in her own Seduction. Saying she has a boyfriend is just a test to see how you react. It's a weak test, but a test nontheless. So how do you react to that? Here are three ways we can disregard the "I Have A Boyfriend" line
Sexual Vibe
Compliment Her On Her Teeth
Make It No Big Deal
Sexual Vibe
First and foremost, you vibe must always be Sexual. That means you approach with a direct opener, give her sexy eye contact, and make sexual comments EARLY in the conversation. The other night, within 10 seconds of conservation, a woman told me she plays the clarinet, my response
"Oh so you like and sucking on instruments and using your lips huh?"
She laughed "Hehe! You're funny."
I got her thinking about it. That's Sexual Imagery
Starting off every interaction with a Sexual Vibe is crucial for every Seduction. And once you set up a Sexual Vibe... Setting up dates is actually very, VERY challenging, simply because you've already set the tone. She thought what she could expect from you would be raunchy, steamy sex... She's ready, she's WET... And you walk away with a phone number? She's PISSED! Women who have boyfriens don't want coffee, they want an Instant Lay. Girls with boyfriends are looking for fun side-flings with Lovers, while their Provider boyfriend kisses their feet and goes shopping with them. Women with boyfriends are fun because they won't try to lock you down. They want it immediately. And if you walk away with a phone number, the emotion she gets from you being sexy and charming fades, and her logic of "I have a boyfriend and I'm risk-averse" comes into play. Girls with boyfriends are easy. But only if you have a Sexual Vibe, and Move Fast. No Phone Numbers. It might work, but you're making the GAME much harder than it needs to be. Get Your Sexual Vibe peaking all all times
Compliment Her On Her Teeth
What? Are you serious? Yes! Absolutely. I discovered this one as I was experimenting with new ways to flirt with Girls. You can get women thinking about cheating on their boyfriends with one simple little trick. Tell her she has nice teeth. Very early in the conversation, even after the opener, you compliment Her on Her smile. Basically, it goes a little something like this
"You have quite a lovely smile Michelle."
"Hehe! Thank You!"
"Tell Me, have you ever had braces?" (a little deep diving on Her childhood, get her to open up)
"Hehe! Yeah, I did in high school"
"Oh wow, that's not even fair. You had me thinking you're an Au-Natural" (a little teasing)
"Hehe! Yeah, I Cheated!"
(She consciously verbalizes it. Now you capitalize any way that fits your personality)
"Oh wow, you're such a bad girl! I might just have to give you a spanking"
"That's okay! I won't tell if you don't!"
"Jeez, you're so naughty! I can't take you anywhere if you keep talking like that"
Or whatever you feel like saying. It's your Seduction.
Brush It Off/Make It No Big Deal
What if she didn't have braces? And you can't get Her to say "I Cheated" Simply move the conversation forward. If a woman has a Boyfriend, she'll probably bring it up later in conversation, especially when she's certain you're a Lover (or in the bedroom if she really wants to wait to surprise you, but it REALLY doesn't matter at that point anyways). Either way, if she tells you during mid-conversation, or in the heat of the moment, you can tell her
"That is not relevant right now"
"That's okay. I am not trying to replace him."
"Okay, but you can't tell him about tonight. This is a one-time thing, and no one ever had to know"
"Okay... (hold eye contact with a sexy smile to create pressure, then move the conversation forward. Wait till she breaks eye contact) anyways... Tell me more about the story from when you had that roommate your freshman year"
The Brush Off/Making It No Big Deal works because it let's her know that you ARE a lover, and will not judge her negatively for cheating on her boyfriend. Trust me. She knew she had a boyfriend before you approached her. If she was not interested in getting Seduced... She would not participate in the mating dance. She could just reject you. But she didn't reject you. Why? She WANTS to cheat on Her boyfriend... She just wants you to know that she has one to see how you feel about that. And if you oppose to the idea of sleeping with a woman with a boyfriend, she actually gets very angry at you for making her excited, and then walking away from her. But if girls with boyfriends aren't your cup of tea... Do what you have to do Player! To Each His Own.
Recap
Girls with Boyfriends really aren't that hard to deal with. They're actually Easier. Set your Sexual Vibe with EVERY interaction, and run the process as usual. Compliment Her on her Smile and find out if she had braces. If you can't get Her to say "I Cheated" simply move the interaction forward. If she brings up it herself, just make it No Big Deal. And she'll make it No Big Deal. And then you guys can have fun together. Because it "Just Happened"
And Remember... Women Will Test You
Always Keep Your Cool. Always
~DANGER!
Greetings To The World Of Seducers... It Truly Is... A Secret Society
I have a little Mindset I have picked up on along the way, and I would Love to Share it. Question Is...
How Do I Get With Girls With Boyfriends
Great Question! Let's Break It Down.
In the World of Seduction, you'll run into a lot of women that say the magic words "I Have A Boyfriend" as if it's supposed to stop your GAME from winning. Nuh-Uh. I've been through enough rejections to know that if a woman isn't interested, she wouldn't accept your direct opener. It's That Simple. So if you approach her, she smiles and laughs, and participates in conversation, she is playing a part in her own Seduction. Saying she has a boyfriend is just a test to see how you react. It's a weak test, but a test nontheless. So how do you react to that? Here are three ways we can disregard the "I Have A Boyfriend" line
Sexual Vibe
Compliment Her On Her Teeth
Make It No Big Deal
Sexual Vibe
First and foremost, you vibe must always be Sexual. That means you approach with a direct opener, give her sexy eye contact, and make sexual comments EARLY in the conversation. The other night, within 10 seconds of conservation, a woman told me she plays the clarinet, my response
"Oh so you like and sucking on instruments and using your lips huh?"
She laughed "Hehe! You're funny."
I got her thinking about it. That's Sexual Imagery
Starting off every interaction with a Sexual Vibe is crucial for every Seduction. And once you set up a Sexual Vibe... Setting up dates is actually very, VERY challenging, simply because you've already set the tone. She thought what she could expect from you would be raunchy, steamy sex... She's ready, she's WET... And you walk away with a phone number? She's PISSED! Women who have boyfriens don't want coffee, they want an Instant Lay. Girls with boyfriends are looking for fun side-flings with Lovers, while their Provider boyfriend kisses their feet and goes shopping with them. Women with boyfriends are fun because they won't try to lock you down. They want it immediately. And if you walk away with a phone number, the emotion she gets from you being sexy and charming fades, and her logic of "I have a boyfriend and I'm risk-averse" comes into play. Girls with boyfriends are easy. But only if you have a Sexual Vibe, and Move Fast. No Phone Numbers. It might work, but you're making the GAME much harder than it needs to be. Get Your Sexual Vibe peaking all all times
Compliment Her On Her Teeth
What? Are you serious? Yes! Absolutely. I discovered this one as I was experimenting with new ways to flirt with Girls. You can get women thinking about cheating on their boyfriends with one simple little trick. Tell her she has nice teeth. Very early in the conversation, even after the opener, you compliment Her on Her smile. Basically, it goes a little something like this
"You have quite a lovely smile Michelle."
"Hehe! Thank You!"
"Tell Me, have you ever had braces?" (a little deep diving on Her childhood, get her to open up)
"Hehe! Yeah, I did in high school"
"Oh wow, that's not even fair. You had me thinking you're an Au-Natural" (a little teasing)
"Hehe! Yeah, I Cheated!"
(She consciously verbalizes it. Now you capitalize any way that fits your personality)
"Oh wow, you're such a bad girl! I might just have to give you a spanking"
"That's okay! I won't tell if you don't!"
"Jeez, you're so naughty! I can't take you anywhere if you keep talking like that"
Or whatever you feel like saying. It's your Seduction.
Brush It Off/Make It No Big Deal
What if she didn't have braces? And you can't get Her to say "I Cheated" Simply move the conversation forward. If a woman has a Boyfriend, she'll probably bring it up later in conversation, especially when she's certain you're a Lover (or in the bedroom if she really wants to wait to surprise you, but it REALLY doesn't matter at that point anyways). Either way, if she tells you during mid-conversation, or in the heat of the moment, you can tell her
"That is not relevant right now"
"That's okay. I am not trying to replace him."
"Okay, but you can't tell him about tonight. This is a one-time thing, and no one ever had to know"
"Okay... (hold eye contact with a sexy smile to create pressure, then move the conversation forward. Wait till she breaks eye contact) anyways... Tell me more about the story from when you had that roommate your freshman year"
The Brush Off/Making It No Big Deal works because it let's her know that you ARE a lover, and will not judge her negatively for cheating on her boyfriend. Trust me. She knew she had a boyfriend before you approached her. If she was not interested in getting Seduced... She would not participate in the mating dance. She could just reject you. But she didn't reject you. Why? She WANTS to cheat on Her boyfriend... She just wants you to know that she has one to see how you feel about that. And if you oppose to the idea of sleeping with a woman with a boyfriend, she actually gets very angry at you for making her excited, and then walking away from her. But if girls with boyfriends aren't your cup of tea... Do what you have to do Player! To Each His Own.
Recap
Girls with Boyfriends really aren't that hard to deal with. They're actually Easier. Set your Sexual Vibe with EVERY interaction, and run the process as usual. Compliment Her on her Smile and find out if she had braces. If you can't get Her to say "I Cheated" simply move the interaction forward. If she brings up it herself, just make it No Big Deal. And she'll make it No Big Deal. And then you guys can have fun together. Because it "Just Happened"
And Remember... Women Will Test You
Always Keep Your Cool. Always
~DANGER!
