Giving girl great sex but she still refuses to have sex on her "period"

[killerman]

The last couple months i've been fucking this girl who was previously a virgin. The problem though is that once a month she says she can't have sex because she's on her period. Now I know this is a sign that she's not sexually attracted but the thing that doesn't make sense is that despite me knowing i'm giving her great sex when we fuck she still denies she likes sex and refuses to have sex on her period. Now I know I'm giving her great sex. For a start her facial expressions are too genuine when i give her orgasms. She's constantly out of breath so she can't ride. And she gets SUPER wet and her vaginal muscles contract when i give her orgasms. So why despite the great sex does she refuse to fuck on her period? She should be gagging for it at all times by now. Especially as she was previously a virgin and I've shown her the beauty of great sex.

Also she refuses to give blow jobs. She's chinese though which might be an explanation for the conservativeness but it's getting to the point where I'm thinking of cutting her off. How do i get her to suck dick? How do i convince her to fuck on her period?

 

[Grand Pooba]

So why despite the great sex does she refuse to fuck on her period? She should be gagging for it at all times by now.

Some girls just aren't into it, man. She's just a girl, a human being, with her own likes and dislikes.

Your whole post reeks of entitlement.

She's chinese though which might be an explanation for the conservativeness

Correct especially if she's from the mainland.

it's getting to the point where I'm thinking of cutting her off.

You're going to cut off a girl who you're enjoying sex with and I assume otherwise enjoy hanging out with - because she doesn't want to fuck for a couple of days of the month, and she isn't giving you BJs yet, because of her own inexperience. That's hilarious, dude.

How do i get her to suck dick? How do i convince her to fuck on her period?

First, patience. You're this girl's first exposure to men, so that's also a lot of responsibility on your hands. I.e. you blame her for not sucking your cock or fucking on her period and then cut her off, that's going to affect her self esteem with other men.

#1 rule: always leave women better than where you found them.

Second, she's new to sex, so there are a lot of things that she isn't used to the idea of that she will need more exposure to in order to open herself up to them. So you get to be her guide, rather than come at it from the entitled angle that you are in this post "SHE NEEDS TO BLOW ME AND FUCK ALL THE TIME OR ELSE!!" Remember, she's different culturally - so while culturally for you BJs are awesome and promoted heavily in society and you grew up with that idea, it might not be the case for her. You need to gradually warm her up to the idea though affirmations and praise, bring out that sexuality.

Get her excited about making you feel good (and then when she's invested you introduce the idea of BJs slowly and casually). Be her teacher, be her guide. You do this with frame control, and as I don't know the specifics of your frames with this girl I can't give you more detail.

Finally, I'm not sure if you're exclusive to this girl or she's one of the girls you're dating - but if you're dating multiple girls and she's just one of them, just plan your meets/sex around when she's NOT having her period. You should have a good idea of her average cycle by now - timing, etc. You can also still hang out with her without fucking.

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Killerman,

About the no blowjob, wouldn't say it's cultural. Got about 4 out of 6 Chinese girls giving me a blowjob without me prompting. Some of them quite hungry. The last time (from a Chinese girl) one week ago . No matter the culture, some girls like it spontaneously, some others don't. I consider it has to come from her.

And if she doesn't, it's absolutely no worries. Another girl in my current rotation will hungrily suck me in a few days.

I otherwise agree with Grand Pooba that you should be cool with her and teach her things gently and patiently.

Cheers man,
Seppuku