Hello all, I would like to share a rather unpleasant experience with you all. My girlfriend who I have almost been with for 6 months had a birthday yesterday. When we first started dating she would often complain about receiving toll tickets in the mail because she didn't have one of those plastic toll pass things you put on your windshield. I am a nearly broke unemployed university student so I had no choice but to be frugal about my selection in gift giving. So I (as I learned, not the best idea) decided to get her the plastic toll pass thing. Little did I know she already had one. So i give her it in a shopping bag (this was made in a hurry because my schoolwork eats up alot of my time). I was all smiles until she pulled it out and says "oh....I already have one of these." I'm pretty sure by then I was red as a beet. Then she went on this whole schpeal about that not being a gift and then went as far as to ask me why I didn't give her a greeting card, gift card, or jewelry like a normal person. One half of me felt ashamed of myself and the other half of me felt unappreciated. This girl is very feminine and high maintenance which is not a category I was used to dating when I first got with her. I made it work all these months. But to make matters worse she refuses to let me make it up to her. Now I have read on here that more often than not women don't mean what they say but she gave me a solemn warning that getting her something the day after would make things worse. I don't know what to do at this point. Should I believe her and do nothing and not screw up again? Or should I defy her and get her something small like the gift card inside a greeting card along with a long well thought-out note. Has anyone been in these shitty circumstances? What would you do if you were in my shoes? I think this would make a good topic for one of the writers to touch up on since I'm sure many readers on here such as myself don't have the best taste in gift giving (I went a long time single, so this hasn't been a concern until now). What do you think?