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I've met 1 on 1 with one girl from social circle last weekend - for something specific.
As usual, I'm not sure if I screwed or how badly (I did dismiss a kind of escalation window thing).
. . .but the point is earlier today I tried setting up some convo but she wasn't interested enough and I didn't want to chase so I left it at nothing. Then at night she messages me to organize a meetup with her and this other girl we know - again it's to do some stuff we have interest in common.
I did not reply (yet) cause I was out with other friends.
Both girls are quite attractive - and meeting with them is a stepping stone to establishing a social circle I'd be the leader of (long story).
But my point is that this whole "let's meet up with her" is also a way to replace any potential 1 on 1 meetup we could have had this weekend.
So it's a move towards the non-sexual, let's assure anothing happens kind of territory.
But, again, it's two girls and one guy and, anyway, I still have to show up and play my part to get other objectives done.
So, I'm thinking. . .
. . . if I am to eventually get something going on with either, maybe something like sexualizing the conversation, dominant body language, jealousy plotlines and rewarding certain types of attention would help turning this situation to my favour? The idea being just to set a precedent, arouse sexual interest - I know I'm going to run into either (separatedly) later down the road. Conversely I could totally suck, be meek, asexual, etc. . .
Any tips about concrete actions and attitudes? Two girls, one guy, hanging out.
As usual, I'm not sure if I screwed or how badly (I did dismiss a kind of escalation window thing).
. . .but the point is earlier today I tried setting up some convo but she wasn't interested enough and I didn't want to chase so I left it at nothing. Then at night she messages me to organize a meetup with her and this other girl we know - again it's to do some stuff we have interest in common.
I did not reply (yet) cause I was out with other friends.
Both girls are quite attractive - and meeting with them is a stepping stone to establishing a social circle I'd be the leader of (long story).
But my point is that this whole "let's meet up with her" is also a way to replace any potential 1 on 1 meetup we could have had this weekend.
So it's a move towards the non-sexual, let's assure anothing happens kind of territory.
But, again, it's two girls and one guy and, anyway, I still have to show up and play my part to get other objectives done.
So, I'm thinking. . .
. . . if I am to eventually get something going on with either, maybe something like sexualizing the conversation, dominant body language, jealousy plotlines and rewarding certain types of attention would help turning this situation to my favour? The idea being just to set a precedent, arouse sexual interest - I know I'm going to run into either (separatedly) later down the road. Conversely I could totally suck, be meek, asexual, etc. . .
Any tips about concrete actions and attitudes? Two girls, one guy, hanging out.
