Good reasons why to go after women 30-40 years old
* She is more mature than younger girls, she's been around many guys, she knows how guys think and how they talk, thus she can vibe with you very easily. E.g. she doesn't expect you to be a talker, she will talk and talk, and make you feel good about it
* She usually have good/great personality. You don't have to worry about deep diving, the conversation is more natural, you can easily talk about normal/casual/boring stuff and still have great vibes. Basically you don't have to "entertain" her as you do with younger/immature girls
* She is forgiving of many mistakes and imperfections that guys do during seduction/dating. She will give you lots of windows, and she can easily lead as she is - most likely - more experienced than you
* She usually knows what she wants. If she wants to fuck fast, she will fuck the same day. If she wants to date more first, you have no other choice than waiting anyway. Unless you are really good, your sexy smiles and looks just won't do it, she'll see through you right there. So, mine as well, you can chill. All you really have to do is to just "stick around", wait. For that you don't need any seduction skills
* Most likely her frame is much stronger than yours, which means pretty much the same: If she wants to fuck the first day, she will. If not, you can't really do much anyway.
* You don't have to pretend any sexiness. She already knows that you have a dick and she assumes that you want to fuck. She also knows that you have less experience than she does
* If you are shy she will give you plenty of time to find your balls
* She (most likely) already stopped dreaming about some fucking prince, hero, superman. Her imagination and fantasy about ideal guy is gone (usually), now she is looking for more real/practical man. She's (most likely) been in love already, and she's not necessary looking for love of her life like younger girls. She is looking for more practical man, regular guy...
* Her choices are rather limited at this age, which actually means that she is quite desperate to get a "good catch". While when she was 20-25 many guys were hitting on her all day long, and she was rejecting guys left and right without even thinking. Now she only gets occasional compliments and looks. She is craving attention from guys, and she will do many things to get it back
* She is very careful to reject a good man who is after her, because another one may just not be there for weeks, months...
* Know that she is most likely looking for a provider. Ok, you don't have to be provider if you don't want to, but the knowledge may ease your game: You simply have more time for this woman, it could be dating style rather than lover style - you can chill, no stress, what wasn't working first time may work fifth time...
So what do you have to do to get such woman? You don't really need much seduction stuff as she is at least 20x more knowledgeable about relationships than you, and she is more experienced as well. Your sexy phrases may spark some interest, but they won't really do it. You don't even have to pretend that you had/know many girls. You don't have to be Alpha or Asshole. So safe yourself a big headache, leave these out. Just be normal, be who you are...
Assuming that you are inexperienced:
You have to go after her, show her that you are interested and that you want her. You can give her some compliments (as she's not getting many now). Bother her, text her, call her, tease her, annoy her... Be persistent by going after her but don't chase, don't be too clingy and needy. It's just cool, play, no drama, avoid too many emotions. It is just fun...
You have to have desire to fuck, and show some balls to go for it. E.g. she invites you to her place for dinner - you have to go. (I actually know a guy who was invited on a boat, she was in her bikini - and he refused, made some lame excuses). When she sits next to you in her place - you should be able to push yourself forward, and start touching and kissing... Show some balls, having balls is BIG, you simply have to be determined that you will do everything you can to have sex with her. At the same time (again), don't be too needy and pushy. You are just there, and she is there to teach you. She's actually taking care of everything, she is doing everything - you just have to be determined to have sex and push yourself towards it...
If it doesn't work it is ok, don't flip, just remain non-reactive, no negative emotions, no fucking drama...
Try to be more mature, more respected man rather than a silly/funny/entertaining boy. Try to show that there are important things in your life that you care about, and that you work on something that is important to you...
You don't necessary have to be provider but you want to "stick around" for longer time so she gets used to you and your frame...
In essence, you want to present yourself as a man, a guy who has desire to fuck, who can be really gentle on one side - but who can also be able to fuck her brains out on the other...
You do this and you'll realize that it is 10 times EASIER than with younger girls...
* She is more mature than younger girls, she's been around many guys, she knows how guys think and how they talk, thus she can vibe with you very easily. E.g. she doesn't expect you to be a talker, she will talk and talk, and make you feel good about it
* She usually have good/great personality. You don't have to worry about deep diving, the conversation is more natural, you can easily talk about normal/casual/boring stuff and still have great vibes. Basically you don't have to "entertain" her as you do with younger/immature girls
* She is forgiving of many mistakes and imperfections that guys do during seduction/dating. She will give you lots of windows, and she can easily lead as she is - most likely - more experienced than you
* She usually knows what she wants. If she wants to fuck fast, she will fuck the same day. If she wants to date more first, you have no other choice than waiting anyway. Unless you are really good, your sexy smiles and looks just won't do it, she'll see through you right there. So, mine as well, you can chill. All you really have to do is to just "stick around", wait. For that you don't need any seduction skills
* Most likely her frame is much stronger than yours, which means pretty much the same: If she wants to fuck the first day, she will. If not, you can't really do much anyway.
* You don't have to pretend any sexiness. She already knows that you have a dick and she assumes that you want to fuck. She also knows that you have less experience than she does
* If you are shy she will give you plenty of time to find your balls
* She (most likely) already stopped dreaming about some fucking prince, hero, superman. Her imagination and fantasy about ideal guy is gone (usually), now she is looking for more real/practical man. She's (most likely) been in love already, and she's not necessary looking for love of her life like younger girls. She is looking for more practical man, regular guy...
* Her choices are rather limited at this age, which actually means that she is quite desperate to get a "good catch". While when she was 20-25 many guys were hitting on her all day long, and she was rejecting guys left and right without even thinking. Now she only gets occasional compliments and looks. She is craving attention from guys, and she will do many things to get it back
* She is very careful to reject a good man who is after her, because another one may just not be there for weeks, months...
* Know that she is most likely looking for a provider. Ok, you don't have to be provider if you don't want to, but the knowledge may ease your game: You simply have more time for this woman, it could be dating style rather than lover style - you can chill, no stress, what wasn't working first time may work fifth time...
So what do you have to do to get such woman? You don't really need much seduction stuff as she is at least 20x more knowledgeable about relationships than you, and she is more experienced as well. Your sexy phrases may spark some interest, but they won't really do it. You don't even have to pretend that you had/know many girls. You don't have to be Alpha or Asshole. So safe yourself a big headache, leave these out. Just be normal, be who you are...
Assuming that you are inexperienced:
You have to go after her, show her that you are interested and that you want her. You can give her some compliments (as she's not getting many now). Bother her, text her, call her, tease her, annoy her... Be persistent by going after her but don't chase, don't be too clingy and needy. It's just cool, play, no drama, avoid too many emotions. It is just fun...
You have to have desire to fuck, and show some balls to go for it. E.g. she invites you to her place for dinner - you have to go. (I actually know a guy who was invited on a boat, she was in her bikini - and he refused, made some lame excuses). When she sits next to you in her place - you should be able to push yourself forward, and start touching and kissing... Show some balls, having balls is BIG, you simply have to be determined that you will do everything you can to have sex with her. At the same time (again), don't be too needy and pushy. You are just there, and she is there to teach you. She's actually taking care of everything, she is doing everything - you just have to be determined to have sex and push yourself towards it...
If it doesn't work it is ok, don't flip, just remain non-reactive, no negative emotions, no fucking drama...
Try to be more mature, more respected man rather than a silly/funny/entertaining boy. Try to show that there are important things in your life that you care about, and that you work on something that is important to you...
You don't necessary have to be provider but you want to "stick around" for longer time so she gets used to you and your frame...
In essence, you want to present yourself as a man, a guy who has desire to fuck, who can be really gentle on one side - but who can also be able to fuck her brains out on the other...
You do this and you'll realize that it is 10 times EASIER than with younger girls...
