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ocantu1987

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Been hanging out with my new buddy and I say that he is more socially adept than me. He approaches women alot during nightgame and hes not that great, but he can talk for hours lol. He also does not study pick-up, he just read "the game" by Neil Strauss.

He approached these group of 3 girls 2 weeks ago at a bar and it went great, I went over to talk with them and do my thing. One of the girls was a strait party girl and she was grinding on all of us and I talked to her friend named Bethany. She was a cute half latin, half white chick anyways she was neutral with me the whole night until I built some decent rapport about how I love dogs. I used a line from "Models" by Mark Manson that just hit the spot.

"So Bethany what is your favorite thing in the world?"

The bar was closing and they wanted to hit up a strip club so we told them we will meet them there and they never showed and didnt pick up the phone after we called. We thought okay well nice meeting you.

My buddy,persistent, he texted his girl (I didnt get the other girls number) and she responded with interest. My birthday was friday and he ask her if she wanted to help us celibrate and she wasnt that interested.

Me and my buddy went downtown to check the bars and I managed one approach on these 2 girls sitting together. They were not very receptive, but I tried a cold read that they found surprising.

"You both are teachers.wow i am, how did you know that haha?"

the other girl was like not me. and I said "you are a vetinarian?" nice i am actually studying to be one, how did you know that?

I said "cant tell all my secrets" and they laughed.

They were just plain lucky guesses lol I cant believe I guessed right. They were still not interested in us so we bounced.

went to a few other places and theses places were crowded didnt see approach opportunities so as we were leaving guess who called? them 2 girls.
They changed their mind and said they were going to the club down the street from their apartment and that we should go. My buddies face lit up haha

we showed up and they did too. They were already a little drunk. Bethany was waaaay more into me than last time. I didnt really say much at all, she was wishing me a happy birthday and I was just plain having fun getting drunk.

The mistake i think i did last time with her was just being a little shy in touching her. I fucking put my arm around her waist and I think that was all i needed, we ended making out at the bar in front of everybody! my homeboy was making out with his girl too. Bethany was also rubbing her ass all over my cock all fucking night long! they were getting drunk lol.

I was telling her some beta things although i didnt think it was a big deal at the time.

"Bethany dont regret this tommorow" I said this cause i got bad buyers remorse from another girl i made out with while we were drinking.

"Im a gentlemen bethany" while more making out lol

"you gonna answer my text tomorrow? " said this while kissing her neck

we ended up going to a strip club and on the ride over there she put her head in my lap begging me to kiss her lol I thought that was cool. At the strip club it was the same thing, more making out and she grinded on my cock some more. My buddy told me i should touch her tits and I did a little. Good size tits.

My buddy moved around the club while me and bethany were distracted. I grabbed her hand and said "lets go find them." I did a large amount of "leading" her in this strip club, i think it made her like me even more. I was happy that i did this as I remembered that I read this somewhere. The man always Leads!

Thinks were winding down and I thought we have to pull, they live close by but the went to the restroom and disapeared! Didnt see them for the rest of the night lol
We texted and called and no dice. So we bounced.

The next day they explained that one of them got sick, too much alcohol and they walked home. Bethany did give me her number and she texted me saying sorry and thanks for celebrating your birthday with us. I said it was cool and I sent her a picture of me and her that looked awesome. She said it was nice. Although i dont know if this was a good thing that i sent her this. Told her lets hang out again soon and she said yes.

texted her today if she recovering from that hangover and no reply for like 2 hours lol erghhh this shit pisses me off that girls do this all the time that i end up deleting numbers compusively. Trying not to get my hopes up here. This girl made out with me, a totall stranger without knowing me much at all I think speaks loudly.

I also saw something during the night. they were talking to a guy and i could have swore bethany gave him a quick kiss on the lips. She was drunk thats for sure.

Girlschase veterans what kind of girl am i dealing with? im not looking for anything serious although my actions seem to say the contrary. Im trying to stop being needy, but her not reply to my text irritates me and i feel like deleting her number. Sucks cause my buddies girl is texting him alot.
 
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