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daviddreamer

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I know this website is mainly a target for males who would like to sleep with countless Women but since the beginning I have used this website to primarily learn about maintaining relationships and learn about what goes on in a Woman's head. I have no regrets to being married now. My wife is beautiful, kind, and loyal and we are planning on having kids.

I would like to thank girlschase and the members of this website. I have been doing a lot of reading on this website for the past year and my life took a complete turn last year when I started applying the lessons from this website. Before this website all my interactions with women were awkward, in my last relationship I was desperate and needy and then bitter and angry when it ended, I was a beta who didn't have a purpose...Before I thought I would die lonely and never have a meaningful relationship I had almost given up. But then things started turning around.

The most important thing I learned from this website is, in fact, not how to pick up women. But about having a strong mindset and being a MAN to begin with. Being a true gentleman, making your goals your mission in life, having a purpose, not being depressed and desperate and realizing happiness is a choice, and so much more...It wasn't until I escaped from victim mentality and started working on my fundamentals did I find and feel that I had the value that a lucky women is gonna have one day. Once I fixed my mindset, picking up women became EASY and I felt like I could have any women I wanted.

I hope this doesn't sound a little crazy to you Mr. Amante but me and my wife were talking about names for our kid recently and for a boy I asked her what she thought of "Chase". She said with enthusiasm "I like it my love, I think girls will chase him!" She isn't aware of this website but I gave her a smile and told her we should go with it. I can't wait to teach my future son things about women my Dad never taught me.

I learned a great deal from you Chase and the other authors and members of this website and I'm forever grateful. I plan to continue reading up on this website and never getting complacent in my relationship. I want to never become the boring, unambitious, needy, and desperate man I was before and keep myself improving and my relationship improving.
 

Franco

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Congratulations, David. I'm glad this website has been such an invaluable resource to you. It makes all the writing we do here to help guys out feel worthwhile.

I hope to continue to see more from you, including your "marriage" game! ;)

- Franco
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

trashKENNUT

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daviddreamer,

Congratulations DAVID D. :D You rock her world. Haha!

Zac
 

ProblemSolving

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Congratulations David!

GirlsChase has so much Relationship Gold that it's a shame so few people take advantage of it. This site actually teaches you how to keep a girl chasing you, so she remains passionately in love with you for as long as you want. This site would save so many guys from frustration and heartache, if they just had the balls and emotional control to implement it.

I've tried to tell friends about the dangers of chasing their girlfriends, but they won't have it. "Naw man, you don't understand, we're in love", is usually the answer. They all get run over eventually.

daviddreamer said:
I plan to continue reading up on this website and never getting complacent in my relationship. I want to never become the boring, unambitious, needy, and desperate man I was before and keep myself improving and my relationship improving.

Good! You'll do just fine.
 

Chase

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Congrats, David - I'm very glad to hear you were able to transform your relationship skills first and foremost. Pickup is the "getting", but relationships are the "keeping", and one without the other leaves too many men wanting. May your marriage be a long, happy, and fruitful one.

The name thing isn't weird and I'm honored you'd view me as someone worthy of influencing your choice in names. I expect your son will be well-trained in all manner of social and dating dynamics: making friends, navigating social circles and hierarchies, building and maintaining great relationships, and, of course, meeting cute girls. He doesn't even know it yet, but the groundwork is already being laid for him to have a great life ahead of him.

One other consideration for planning: if you haven't read it yet, I'd recommend checking out Talent is Overrated by Geoff Colvin. There's a lot in there about raising children to be exceptional at something. You want to tailor this to both the child's interests and your own abilities to help teach and guide him, of course, but there's no greater good you can do for a child than to arm him with some skill early in life that he can use later to attain heights inaccessible to others if he so wishes, or, at minimum, to tap as a way to always make a living doing something he enjoys and is good at, to allow him to do whatever he chooses to do with the rest of his life.

Blessings again on your new union, and do keep us appraised of how things progress and what you learn as you go!

Chase
 

PinotNoir

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David, that's awesome. Congratulations and best of luck to you sir :)
 
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