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Lay Report – August 6 25
Laid-back surfer with classic hippie vibes. Amazing skinny body.
Date 1 (occurred on 8/2):
I didn’t go into detail before, but I know the first date went really well—she immediately said she wanted to see me again as we were walking out of the coffee shop.
Date 2 (8/6):
Started off strong. We sat close, lots of kino from the start, then built into solid conversation. After an hour of good conversation transitioned into sex talk. I asked about her dating history, and then led that into sex talk. She was very receptive to the sex talk, telling me exactly what she likes in the bedroom. Luckily, the stuff she’s into is what I genuinely like too—being a little rough, taking the lead, etc.—so I leaned into that. She said she can definitely see me doing all those things.
I did a lot of pacing (maybe too much at one point), but it seemed to go over well. I could tell from the look in her eyes when things were working. She had that lovey-dovey big eyes look.
I used:
• Pacing
• Disqualifying
• Light teasing
• Future projections
• Qualifying
• Incidental kino
• Gentle hand grab kino – told her something playfully serious while holding her hand. She held it longer than usual and even gave a little squeeze back. Good sign.
I moved fast. She had a time constraint—needed to let her puppy out. We checked the time, and she said she had to be back in an hour. I said, “I know this great wine bar with a rooftop and cute animals that’s close by” —she immediately picked up that I was talking about my place and said yes.
I kept the conversation flowing as we transitioned. Paid the bill, kept talking even while waiting. When I came back from the bathroom, I put my hand on her back—she seemed receptive, though there were moments she slightly pulled away from kino. Could just be her personality because obviously, I was able to escalate fully later.
We ended up going to her place so she could let her dog out.
At one point, we got back into sex talk. I said something like, “I’m sure you’re like that,” and she responded, “You wish I was,” in a playful, flirtatious way—definitely an “oh, you’re trying to fuck me” vibe.
Back at Her Place:
Didn’t escalate in the first 10 minutes—we were messing with a wine bottle and had music on. Conversation didn’t flow as well here; I felt mentally tired. Eventually, I gave up on the wine and went in for the kiss.
Sex:
Smoking hot body. Best I’ve had in a while. Perfect surfer, laid-back vibe—even her voice and sun-bleached hair. She jumped straight into me putting it in her with no LMR and very little foreplay.
She came—thank God—and it was in a hot way. Arms pinned, I was hitting it from the back. Super intense. This is why I’m confused on the vibe shift that happens later on. If she didn’t orgasm at all I would understand, but she had a pretty strong one. Even confirmed with me after.
I didn’t finish. Not sure why—maybe just tired. I stopped and rolled over, out of breath. Gotta work on cardio. Always tell myself that, always forget.
This is where (I think) things went wrong:
She asked why I didn’t finish. I explained that I usually don’t the first time. I should’ve said I never do—it seemed to affect her a bit. Then I asked when she last got checked, etc. Maybe not the best timing, but I needed to know because we (stupidly ) didn’t use protection. I think this is the point where she lost attraction:
Either because of my not being able to finish, or jumping into the awkward talk right after.
Or at least something between the sex and when I left because there was a definite vibe shift.
Post-Sex:
We talked a bit. I tried to go again, but she wasn’t feeling it—pulled away when we started making our heavy again. That’s when I knew for sure something was off.
End of the Night:
Didn’t end quite how I wanted. Would’ve liked to finish and go again. But still—a huge win. This was the first time I really called my shot and made it in. Before, it was always a crapshoot, but now I can actually sense (of course to a point) that we are heading to the lay and act accordingly. That’s major progress.
All the time I’ve put into studying seduction material has paid off 100%.
This Morning:
She texted me good morning and sent me a song we talked about. We texted a bit back and forth, I made a joke basically “I’m so tired, I wonder why
” and it’s been a bit since she’s responded.
I think she might have sex regret but would
anyone’s thoughts/advice.
Laid-back surfer with classic hippie vibes. Amazing skinny body.
Date 1 (occurred on 8/2):
I didn’t go into detail before, but I know the first date went really well—she immediately said she wanted to see me again as we were walking out of the coffee shop.
Date 2 (8/6):
Started off strong. We sat close, lots of kino from the start, then built into solid conversation. After an hour of good conversation transitioned into sex talk. I asked about her dating history, and then led that into sex talk. She was very receptive to the sex talk, telling me exactly what she likes in the bedroom. Luckily, the stuff she’s into is what I genuinely like too—being a little rough, taking the lead, etc.—so I leaned into that. She said she can definitely see me doing all those things.
I did a lot of pacing (maybe too much at one point), but it seemed to go over well. I could tell from the look in her eyes when things were working. She had that lovey-dovey big eyes look.
I used:
• Pacing
• Disqualifying
• Light teasing
• Future projections
• Qualifying
• Incidental kino
• Gentle hand grab kino – told her something playfully serious while holding her hand. She held it longer than usual and even gave a little squeeze back. Good sign.
I moved fast. She had a time constraint—needed to let her puppy out. We checked the time, and she said she had to be back in an hour. I said, “I know this great wine bar with a rooftop and cute animals that’s close by” —she immediately picked up that I was talking about my place and said yes.
I kept the conversation flowing as we transitioned. Paid the bill, kept talking even while waiting. When I came back from the bathroom, I put my hand on her back—she seemed receptive, though there were moments she slightly pulled away from kino. Could just be her personality because obviously, I was able to escalate fully later.
We ended up going to her place so she could let her dog out.
At one point, we got back into sex talk. I said something like, “I’m sure you’re like that,” and she responded, “You wish I was,” in a playful, flirtatious way—definitely an “oh, you’re trying to fuck me” vibe.
Back at Her Place:
Didn’t escalate in the first 10 minutes—we were messing with a wine bottle and had music on. Conversation didn’t flow as well here; I felt mentally tired. Eventually, I gave up on the wine and went in for the kiss.
Sex:
Smoking hot body. Best I’ve had in a while. Perfect surfer, laid-back vibe—even her voice and sun-bleached hair. She jumped straight into me putting it in her with no LMR and very little foreplay.
She came—thank God—and it was in a hot way. Arms pinned, I was hitting it from the back. Super intense. This is why I’m confused on the vibe shift that happens later on. If she didn’t orgasm at all I would understand, but she had a pretty strong one. Even confirmed with me after.
I didn’t finish. Not sure why—maybe just tired. I stopped and rolled over, out of breath. Gotta work on cardio. Always tell myself that, always forget.
This is where (I think) things went wrong:
She asked why I didn’t finish. I explained that I usually don’t the first time. I should’ve said I never do—it seemed to affect her a bit. Then I asked when she last got checked, etc. Maybe not the best timing, but I needed to know because we (stupidly ) didn’t use protection. I think this is the point where she lost attraction:
Either because of my not being able to finish, or jumping into the awkward talk right after.
Or at least something between the sex and when I left because there was a definite vibe shift.
Post-Sex:
We talked a bit. I tried to go again, but she wasn’t feeling it—pulled away when we started making our heavy again. That’s when I knew for sure something was off.
End of the Night:
Didn’t end quite how I wanted. Would’ve liked to finish and go again. But still—a huge win. This was the first time I really called my shot and made it in. Before, it was always a crapshoot, but now I can actually sense (of course to a point) that we are heading to the lay and act accordingly. That’s major progress.
All the time I’ve put into studying seduction material has paid off 100%.
This Morning:
She texted me good morning and sent me a song we talked about. We texted a bit back and forth, I made a joke basically “I’m so tired, I wonder why
” and it’s been a bit since she’s responded. I think she might have sex regret but would
anyone’s thoughts/advice.
