Great first date sex, but she's being difficult after that.. need your advice!

[jimmykages]

Sup guys,

Last Sunday, I had first date sex with a girl at her flat. The sex was pretty damn good and she reached orgasms multiple times. We had sex 3 times during the night, cuddled, talked, watched a movie, slept, had morning sex (again she reached orgasms) had breakfast and then i left her flat and she went to her work. About 10hrs later i texted her that we had an amazing night, which she replied the next day that she isn't looking for a relationship, which i then replied that its perfect like that and to take it easy. Yesterday she sent me a text out of the blue telling me that she had a great night and enjoyed it very much but that she doesn't want this to happen again. For some reason i think she wants this to happen again, but my worry is, how do i make it happen again? i haven't texted her yet since then.

What do you guys suggest? Any advice is much appreciated.

Many thanks,
Jim

 

[Whizzy]

Re: Great first date sex, but she's being difficult after that.. need your advic

You could approach this in quite a few ways, but since you think that she did enjoy it I would just proceed as you did before your great night together. I wouldn't tease her about it yet as this could possibly send her into auto-rejection depending on how serious she is about it not happening again. Then when you guys arrange another hangout, make her remember just how great that first night was