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Cro-Magnon Man
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Another Indonesian Girl! I don't know why but Indonesian girls seem to flock to me these days :)

She looked better in person than her pictures which is always a plus. She looks like a girl next door type. Bubbly face, almond shaped eyes, full sensual lips. She has a good vibe, very warm, friendly and fun. I can't say she is gorgeous but definitely very pretty. And she has green hair which I loved. I'm really attracted to girls with tattoos or dyed hair (that's why I was bummed to read that these were signs of crazy girls on one of Chase's articles haha).

We met up and went to my usual pubs. It was still daytime when we met (5pm) but I suggested we have a shot and a beer. She said okay but apparently she doesn't drink much and she warned me that she gets talkative when she drinks. I told her that was great because I loved listening to people, their stories stuff like that. Again, I did not touch her much at all in the beginning and did not do any overt touch except for brushing off something on her leg and touching, holding her hand. Holding hands may seem too "boyfriendy" to some seducers here but it works for me. I always hold girls hands on dates.

I let her talk mostly. At one period she started talking about her ex, apparently they started dating when she was 19 (the first time she came to Istanbul). They dated for four years (she is 22 now). When she told me that she dated a Turkish guy, I replied, let me guess he was super jealous huh? She said YES. Haha. Turkish guys are really jealous, I hear it all the time from girls and I used to very jealous as well and had to do a lot of mental training to overcome it. He said not to talk to other guys. She said but they are my friends. He said, no they are not. He would message her constantly. Ask her to send her pics all the time to prove she was at home. He would want to see what she was wearing (in case it's not proper enough for him). He came to her work place to check her relationship with the other guys there. And bunch of other stuff. She started rebelling of course. He got angry. She dumped him. He came to her place and forcefully got all of the stuff he bought for her over the years including stuff she bought for herself thinking he bought them for her. Broke her phone. She just wanted him gone. She said she didn't love him even one bit now but it sucked because they were in the same class. She said that she wished he would get a gf so he'd be over her. I explained to her that this controlling behavior, jealousy stemmed from insecurity, he did not think he could get a girlfriend like her so he tried to control her in order not to lose her. She agreed. Then I laughed and said that this topic was too depressing and we should change the subject so we did.

We talked a bit of this and that. She was clearly very interested in me, looking at me with doe eyes all excited and shit. When our drinks were about to be finished I asked her "hmm, what should we do now?". She looked at me and said "I don't know. What do you think". I pretended to think for a second said "alright why not get a couple of beers and chill at your place". She said okay and we left. We walked to the parking lot. Then when I asked her if she knew the way to her place, she said "my place?". She said that her place was not good because her roomie was there and said "not today, maybe another time". I realized that she thought we were going to my place. So I pulled her to a hotel.

In the hotel, I fucked her really hard, slapping her, biting her, choking her, calling her my slut, having her confirm that she was my slut and so on. She was so turned on, she was screaming when my fingers were inside her, in fact she would quickly start saying "please I beg you, stop" while moaning. You know how a girl acts when you made her cum and her pussy is so sensitive, she can't stand it? I fucked her through out the night. She asked me a lot of times if I was a fuck boy, she was genuinely worried that I would not see her again, I assured her that I did want to see her again. She never had a one night stand and I was the second guy ever to fuck her. It took her ex months to fuck her. With me I fucked her within two hours (most likely an hour). She was super affectionate with me. I felt like she was falling in love with me.

Truth be told, I am considering making her my gf. She doesn't drink often, doesn't go out, doesn't do drugs. Her partner count is really low. We have great chemistry. She has her own place so I won't have to pay for hotels. She cooks. And fuck it, I really miss having a girl who's in love with me. That's why I did some boyfriendish stuff with her like sleeping with her and having breakfast with in the morning. Most girls I fuck, I don't see them again. Mostly because, they are travelers but even some of the girls who live in Istanbul, we just fuck and they get evasive when I try to schedule another meet. Like the indonesian nypmho who has her bf and fuckbuddy, sex was great and at the time she really wanted to see me again but when I contacted her again, all I got was "sorry, I'm busy". I want a girl who will cook for me, worship me as my exes did, girls I can go do stuff with and not just fuck. On the other hand, she is not gorgeous and I was thinking I want to have a gorgeous girlfriend next time. Another thing, I can see her falling in love with me quite easily and I'm worried she will act needy which is a huge turn off. I guess I will just wait and see :)
 

Ambiance

Modern Human
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Very smooth LR Sandman! It's always great when she likes you right away and all you have to do is run her through your process. You really have been on fire lately.

I'm assuming you met this one on Tinder or through Insta? What type of pictures do you have up, and what's your process look like for setting up dates (like opener and that kind of thing)?

Sounds like you have a good handle on whether to keep her around or not. But does that mean you'd go exclusive with her? You know you, but I'd recommend an MLTR based on how you described your excitement towards her. You've been outright killing it the past month and I think you should keep going hard.

Nice read and well done!

Ambiance
 

Sandman

Cro-Magnon Man
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Thanks man! Always good to hear some words of appreciation :)

You are right it is cool to have a girl who likes you very much from the get go. And inexperienced girls don't have much game to resist having sex on the first date. You either have sex with them or not.

I saw her bio on tinder but I messaged her on Instagram. I have two great pics and a few good pics. Great pics were taken by a semi professional photographer.

I always open with " hi :) how are you?" with Turkish girls (in Turkish) and "hi! what brings you to Istanbul, business or pleasure :)" with foreigners. Then I ask a few questions like "is it your first time in Istanbul", "how do you like it so far?" etc and some send some flirty texts for good measure and invite for a drink after we exchanged a few texts. Then schedule a meet, then ask for their number.

I might go exclusive with her later on, it's been almost two years since I had an exclusive girl. But not right away even though it's apparent that that's what she wants. You are right, dating has been very easy for a while, I think I just had a breakthrough or at least I'm in the cusp of having a breakthrough and I want to cement my gains if I can.
 
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