Hey people I am Ntando and live in South Africa, Chase Amante must say that the blog is pretty amazing! I have learned a lot from it. Yeah people this is my first post so here goes. My girlfriend of 6 weeks broke up with me yesterday; I was really disappointed because this is one girl I am really into. So here is the story, a friend introduced me to her and we met each other for the first time over a chat application called Whatsapp. We got to know each other and it was pretty fun, we sent each other voice recordings there and then and I would call her there and then. After sometime we met each other for the first time at this one shopping mall, the date was great and we kissed!! we started getting to know each other more and more and she did reveal to me that she has problems with depression, I remember she got angry over something small I said to her and she didn't talk to me for the whole day anyways we went on our second date after two weeks and it was pretty amazing, we got to know each other she's a great person and she told me a bit about the family problems she is having, now the spark started dying after our third date where we got a little bit deeper into the reasons for her depression, our conversations on Whatsapp started getting really boring and she would have moods there and then I would try start a topic and she would just shut it down with one word boring answers, I confronted her about this and then she claimed it was her family problems that are depressing her and causing her to not partake in the relationship and then last night she broke up with me. She's 21 and I'm 20 years old and we are both studying in different colleges.
She said that I lack communication and don't express myself and that she is bored. She also said that the reason things became dull was because she revealed her true colors, her depression. She said that I don't express myself and that she is bored of me basically, I could say it was the depression that caused this but the relationship was so perfect at the beginning so I think i could have also screwed up, but I want to know what do you think was the reason for the break up? Is it possible to get her back? Please people don't hesitate all opinions are welcome.
Thanks in advance
Ntando Sibiya
She said that I lack communication and don't express myself and that she is bored. She also said that the reason things became dull was because she revealed her true colors, her depression. She said that I don't express myself and that she is bored of me basically, I could say it was the depression that caused this but the relationship was so perfect at the beginning so I think i could have also screwed up, but I want to know what do you think was the reason for the break up? Is it possible to get her back? Please people don't hesitate all opinions are welcome.
Thanks in advance
Ntando Sibiya
